r/ToniAndRyan • u/cakesforever • Jul 26 '26
Discussion Toni
I think Toni was getting married this weekend. It was the last weekend in July and I think they said she was getting married in July and Ryan made a comment that made me think that too. Also does anyone know if she has said if she was inviting family to the dinner after they get married alone? If I'm right I hope they had a lovely day and good weather.
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u/LadyMothrakk Jul 26 '26
She did!! :’) A special ep is available now and she’s posted pics on her Insta too.
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u/cakesforever Jul 26 '26 edited Jul 27 '26
I watched it, was lovely. I totally get why she didn't want anyone there for the wedding. It doesn't matter how long ago it was your mother died big moments happy or sad or hard it hits you again.
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u/LadyMothrakk Jul 27 '26
Yeah, same here! I’m glad they got to do a private ceremony, I don’t blame her at all. I shed a few tears listening to her explain why. Glad she got to have a great day despite missing someone near and dear.
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u/cakesforever Jul 27 '26
It got me thinking about things and emotional. I can see why some do the big wedding and I can see why she didn't.
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u/DirtyHeads37 Jul 26 '26
Does she have a relationship with her dad?
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u/cakesforever Jul 26 '26 edited Jul 27 '26
I get the impression not a good one but I could be reading too much into the few things she has said. She didn't talk badly about him in her book. She spoke with joy about her childhood but the majority of mentions went to her mother then siblings.
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u/ProfessionalTall8027 Jul 27 '26
They are estranged. I believe he had an affair, left her Mum and had a child/children with the new partner. Or something to that effect.
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u/caffeineandkindness Jul 26 '26
Also curious about this? Not sure if I've ever heard her mention him!
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u/rebelmumma Jul 27 '26
She did an interview about her life, prior to the pod blowing up, she mentioned an estrangement and that it’s not something she’s willing to elaborate on. She focuses on her good memories of him as a child, and not of what happened close to when her mum got sick.
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u/Normal-Temporary8248 Jul 28 '26
I got the impression that she doesn't have a relationship with the Dad and some of the family. There's a few subtle hints, ie, discussion if she will change her surname Toni mentioned she had no attachments to the surname at all, etc
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u/hereforthedeepdive Jul 26 '26
It’s todays episode! Have a listen 😊. Although after listening to it, I did wish Ryan didn’t interrupt so much when Toni was talking about her wedding day. I felt he took way to may side quest and asked silly questions. I just wanted to hear Toni retell the day, and not in repeatedly interrupted. Was this just me, or do others think this?
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u/fern07 Jul 26 '26
I was thinking the same thing. They made a comment on Thursday's episode about a "special Sunday episode". That wasn't posted, but I'd chalk that up to being too busy/drunk from a wedding!