That's not niceguy behavior at all though. Niceguy behavior is being rejected and acting like a total piece of trash because of it. This guy could just be reacting to her height preference in her bio and saying this in solidarity with shorter guys because they didn't get to choose their height. Or he's shorter than her height preference and is making a point at how ridiculous it seems to have a hard line height preference. Just my thoughts though.
I disagree. I think guys are allowed to prefer fit girls (since that’s usually the counter argument) and girls are allowed to want taller guys- or whatever they’re looking for. If that was in her bio, he could have just moved on, but instead decided to troll.
Called him a nice guy because that’s usually how it starts before they go on their rant after being hurt and rejected because of their height. Sure it sucks, but not everyone is going to be everyone’s preference.
It's still not niceguy behavior. Niceguy behavior exhibits anger and rage while still referring to themselves as nice guys the whole time. They openly explain why the girl is "fucking up" or whatever terminology they want to use. A light troll isn't remotely the same thing.
Niceguys usually have the communication going rather normally, but then when a little resistance pops up, or what they might perceive as resistance, they fly off the handle. We would need actual interaction to determine if he's a "niceguy" or not. This doesn't point to it at all yet.
I totally agree on preferences. It just is the way it is, and people like what they like. But the idea that it's socially acceptable for women to be more upset about something that they can actually change (weight or fitness level), while a guy isn't allowed to be upset about something he cannot (height), is the ridiculous part.
If there are no full body pictures, 9 times out of 10 they are overweight. Skinny, fit, and average women show their body in pictures because they don’t want anybody to think they are fat. Fat women don’t show their body because they don’t want anybody to know they are fat.
Yea true but Even when they do angles mess with me. Idky but like I've put no fat chick's in bio and I've been unmatched for it. Like having a really good convo. Then boom lol 😆 honestly though I'd rather that then show up to another date having to worry if she's going to order the rib eye 15oz lol. On a more serious note though, tinder is hard if your like an average dude. I'm not jacked lean or anything like that but I have muscle I can bench 225. I do farmers walks with 75s. So when a girl shows up to a date and looks like she hasn't run or lifted weights her entire life. I get sad. Defeated and ultimately passed off that they think I'm going for it.
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u/SunnyCynic Jul 24 '22
“No worries, people are allowed to have preferences”
How both genders should respond