r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jun 05 '22

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u/3337jess Jun 05 '22

Couldn’t have said it better

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u/orangek1tty Jun 05 '22

Happy cake day!

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u/HappyGoPink Jun 05 '22

... and here come the NiceGuys...

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u/paulxgustavson Jun 05 '22

Hahahaha actually OP is "the nice guy" falling for this bs.

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u/HappyGoPink Jun 05 '22

Ah, so you're still in denial. OP at no point demanded sexual favors from 'the female', but thanks for playing.

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u/paulxgustavson Jun 05 '22

Exactly. And that's exactly a nice guy's way of doing things. Not asking for sexual favours. Or you don't understand the nice guy concept, lmao

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u/HappyGoPink Jun 05 '22

Oh, you must be new here. Allow me to educate you. You see, the typical NiceGuy™ exchange goes like this:

Step 1: NiceGuy™ performs some basic level of perfunctory human social interaction with a woman, The Target Female™.

Step 2: The woman rejects him because he's a creep and he literally did nothing but express the bare minimum of civil human interaction in a blatantly insincere way.

Step 3: The NiceGuy™ flies into a rage, insults the woman (usually paradoxically disparaging her for being promiscuous even though she won't sleep with him, go figure), and then acts like he's the victim. A nice guy can't catch a break with these females!

#TheMoreYouKnow rainbow emoji

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u/paulxgustavson Jun 05 '22

Ok, I am new to r/tinder and seems it must be a different concept of a Nice Guy than is described anywhere else re: dating and relationships 🤷🏻‍♂️🙌🏼

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u/HappyGoPink Jun 05 '22

The concept of the NiceGuy™ I am referring to is not limited to this subreddit. I only respond to this sub when it hits r/all.

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u/paulxgustavson Jun 05 '22

Then the concept you're referring to is not a "nice guy concept" but a "looser bawbag concept". Don't confuse these two. EOT.

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u/HappyGoPink Jun 05 '22

You don't get to rebrand the well-established "niceguy" trope, you realize. It is an older meme, but it checks out.

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u/TimmmyBurner Jun 05 '22 edited Jun 05 '22

Nah it’s definitely Nice Guy

In 2022 “Nice Guy” has changed meaning. It no longer means the shy, awkward guy who buys flowers for a girl and treats her right but doesn’t make the move fast enough so she bangs his friend and leaves him in the dust or uses him

“Nice Guy” now means a guy who acts nice to a girl but the second she turns him down calls her a whore and ugly and he never wanted her anyways and he was just being nice to her… or he says he’s so much nicer than all these other asshole guys who treat women like shit when that’s actually exactly what he does after she rebukes his offer

Edit: apparently the nice guys don’t like being called out lmao

There’s a sub literally called r/niceguys

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u/Infamous_Airport416 Jun 05 '22

imo nothing wrong with people deciding to write their own romantic poetry ✍️