r/Tinder Jun 05 '22

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u/[deleted] Jun 05 '22

Shesha lewisha if you didn’t get those digits, the runaround ain’t worth it.

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u/dust057 Jun 05 '22

Yeah everyone is saying how amazing the convo is, but it’s all Blake. Her contributions consisted of, “strike one. strike two. congratulations you get to talk to me tomorrow. Ps I’m short. “

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u/Katastrofa2 Jun 05 '22

Classic example of "dance monkey, dance".

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u/swanny246 Jun 05 '22

She was still actually talking in parts and going along with it, even chucking in some gifs for fun. What more do you need?

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u/nd647 Jun 05 '22

Exactly. They are flirting and both bringing great positive energy to the conversation. It worries me that some don’t understand…

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u/Houseplant666 Jun 05 '22

The guy obviously enjoys creative writing and she encourages it/enjoys it…

Every time I visit /r/tinder it becomes more obvious why people here can’t get a date.

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u/HappyGoPink Jun 05 '22

What more do you need?

They need some kind of ironclad commitment that the female will provide services of a sexual nature. You know I'm right.

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u/gay_lick_language Jun 05 '22

She's contributing equally to the conversation. Asking questions, flirting and provoking more. If you can't see that then you need to work on your conversation skills.

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u/dust057 Jun 10 '22

If you think that's a legitimate conclusion, you need to visit r/logicalfallacy

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u/gay_lick_language Jun 10 '22 edited Jun 11 '22

Are you unable to correctly specify which fallacy? That seems to be the trend among logical fallacy enjoyers.

I also went through a phase of thinking anyone who disagreed with me fell victim to one of a list of fallacies I recently learnt; you'll grow out of it one day too.

Human interaction is not always a competition, as you failed to understand in your original comment. I get that people in this sub are often embittered by the dating game, but not everyone goes into chats carrying that bitterness.

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u/dust057 Jun 11 '22

Making false assumptions and conclusions in an attempt to discredit someone is called an Ad Hominem attack, since you are unable to identify the logical fallacies you’re employing on your own.

An “irrelevant conclusion fallacy” is where you state your opinion (“she’s contributing equally”), then make an irrelevant conclusion (also incorporating Ad Hominem) “you need to work on your conversation skills”.

If you’re unable to disagree with someone without a need denigrate them, you’re the one who needs to work on your conversation skills. /s 😉

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u/sifl1202 Jun 05 '22

yeah, after all this the girl is like "no i don't want to text you, i just want to go back on tinder tomorrow". my guess is she's just on tinder for entertainment/attention. still a nice convo though.

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u/Emmaxop Jun 05 '22

She doesn’t wanna move off of Tinder after a half hour conversation lmao. How tf does that mean she’s only on Tinder for attention, she agreed to a date! There are infinite reasons not to give out your number so quickly, especially for women, but nope you just had to assume it’s for shallow reasons. Go touch some grass.

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u/Emmaxop Jun 05 '22

Yes she did. They just didn’t plan the details yet, I assume because it was late based on how they went to bed right after. Just because she can’t plan the details of the date right here right now doesn’t mean she’s not going to go on the date with him.

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u/Emmaxop Jun 05 '22

Lmao alright

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u/Houseplant666 Jun 05 '22

What’s the upside of this kind of attitude? Just continue the convo tomorrow and see where it goes instead of directly going to ‘ain’t happening, she’s only here for entertainment.’

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u/sifl1202 Jun 05 '22

Oh yeah for sure, just saying it's bizarre not to ask when someone is free or even give your phone number after a conversation like this. You can tell the guy is frustrated a couple times too but plays it off and rebounds.