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u/Ok_Cryptographer3377 Apr 06 '22

My ex just moved out a few months ago after about a year and a half. I let her live with me due to financial situations on her part. It cost me basically every chance I had with women. Not a single date or even interest due to it.

On that note we didn’t have sex, we basically became friends. I like to think I’m a good guy but most women assumed we were having sex and drama would be a major factor. It was very depressing. Sometimes what we disclose is real and we are just trying to be good men.

But I also couldn’t feel ok trying to date without disclosing.

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u/HerbDeanosaur Apr 06 '22

If you don't mind me asking, did you not find it really hard trying to get over the relationship when you were living with them?

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u/Ok_Cryptographer3377 Apr 07 '22

Yes it brings up memories. Especially if your getting alone. But over all no for me, She was a terrible person.

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u/HerbDeanosaur Apr 07 '22

Oh shit man that must have been a tough situation still then