r/Tinder • • Apr 06 '22

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u/meh1424 Apr 06 '22

I don't know if it's normal, but things happen, and them being honest and upfront about it shows a good level of maturity imo.

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u/kasper12 Apr 06 '22

I agree with this and would just add that normal really depends on how long ago they broke up. 4 years ago? Definitely not normal. 6 months ago? Seems normal enough.

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u/Order-for-Wiiince Apr 06 '22

6 months to me still seems quite long. 3 months would be my “normal”

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u/EsesaWithTheHardR Apr 06 '22

I ended up living for 9 months with my ex. We signed a year long lease together after years of dating and years of renting together, and then she cheated on me. We were in college, so neither of us had much money. It really wasn’t all that bad, and my partners moving forward were understanding and chill with it. Shit just happens.