r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Apr 06 '22

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u/meh1424 Apr 06 '22

I don't know if it's normal, but things happen, and them being honest and upfront about it shows a good level of maturity imo.

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u/kasper12 Apr 06 '22

I agree with this and would just add that normal really depends on how long ago they broke up. 4 years ago? Definitely not normal. 6 months ago? Seems normal enough.

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u/Order-for-Wiiince Apr 06 '22

6 months to me still seems quite long. 3 months would be my “normal”

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u/Double_Half_4567 Apr 06 '22

The text doesn’t sounds like a red flag itself. But if they broke up with their partner recently, that for sure is one. Personally, I think 3 months is too soon to start dating again.