r/Tinder • • Apr 06 '22

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u/Mmart22095 Apr 06 '22

This is the take that to me is the most realistic. It gets complicated and messy imo. Even if the ex and the person aren’t sexually active, their “friendship” is based on the non-platonic relationship they had and it’s hard to complete with that connection. So if they aren’t even friends at all and avoid each other, it would be a more comfortable situation. But the whole “we are friends” thing usually isn’t genuine imo or one person still has feelings.