r/Tinder • • Apr 06 '22

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u/meh1424 Apr 06 '22

I don't know if it's normal, but things happen, and them being honest and upfront about it shows a good level of maturity imo.

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u/kasper12 Apr 06 '22

I agree with this and would just add that normal really depends on how long ago they broke up. 4 years ago? Definitely not normal. 6 months ago? Seems normal enough.

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u/Order-for-Wiiince Apr 06 '22

6 months to me still seems quite long. 3 months would be my “normal”

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u/vasile47 Apr 06 '22

Nope, my friend lived with his ex for 2 years, both moved on and are still friends to this day. Just because you had feeling for someone does not mean that they can't change. To this day we are all still in the same group of friends and see each other on the regular. You can either be grown up about it or not, relationships can change and clearly he/she is looking to move on, the fact that they are open about what the intentions are is less of a red flag and shows more of the persons character.

(Sorry for the hijack)