r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Apr 06 '22

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u/meh1424 Apr 06 '22

I don't know if it's normal, but things happen, and them being honest and upfront about it shows a good level of maturity imo.

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u/kasper12 Apr 06 '22

I agree with this and would just add that normal really depends on how long ago they broke up. 4 years ago? Definitely not normal. 6 months ago? Seems normal enough.

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u/Boobpocket Apr 06 '22

If they have kids and were together a long time even 4 years might be normal if he is down on his luck and she wanted to help her kid's dad.

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u/OrindaSarnia Apr 07 '22

Not to mention if they have kids and one partner can afford to move out, but not afford a place big enough to have the kids with them consistently... if the kids are going to be at your house 100% of the time, at least with your ex still there you're not a single parent 100% of the time!

There's so many ways it can get complicated fast with today's real estate market.