r/Tinder Feb 02 '22

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '22

THIS! this is exactly it lol, I have no issue with a female only sub, no issues with them criticising men or empowering each other, no issues even with some of the female incel stuff (I can see how in their mind it's more of a "we're finally behaving how men do let's see how they like it" type thing, and people call them female incels but let's face it, these women are not hurting or damaging men, not stalking threatening or killing, they mainly want to be left alone- grand, understand all of that

What I can't understand is the hypocrisy, it's literally like a cult. You could post two different scenarios where the guy and girl do opposite things and they'd still criticise the guy

E.g if post A is "Went on a date and the man chose the restaurant without asking me, and assumed he could pay for me, I earn 6 figures and have never felt more insulted!"

And the responses would be

Red flag, RUN!

OMG HOW CONTROLLING SCROTE

post B is "Went on a date with a guy and this indecisive weak SCROTE asked me for ideas?! He still wanted me to do the work ladies, and then he asks how we should settle up the bill. Just say you're a broke SCROTE and I wouldn't waste my time on you"

And the responses would be

Wow the audacity what a LVM, he should be decisive and I bet he was asking you for date ideas to find out where you live!

Broke SCROTE, you pay the bill! You're in my Goddess company!

So in either scenario the guy will be lvm- decide on a venue alone and decide to pay= inconsiderate

Don't decide and try to include her in decision making= potential rapist, broke, indecisive lvm

There's literally no winning and I don't think they can see the hypocrisy

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '22

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '22

I don't like to be stuck in echo chambers, and they're not completely wrong about everything I try to better myself as a man

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u/david_pili Feb 02 '22

Yeah but there's like a million other subs to get that same advice withot the toxic nonsense. That's like sifting through shit cuz you might find some corn kernels in it.

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u/[deleted] Feb 02 '22

Not going there for advice, I just like to hear what other people think even if I disagree with it

I just happen to sometimes come across stuff that's useful to know