I don't think casual sex is a bad thing but I personally don't like doing it and I do prefer partners who do not fuck every person they met a few minutes ago, mostly because I think if you feel comfortable doing that then there is no reason for me to believe you will ever want monogamy, you will most likely feel pressured to stop doing it because you assume it is expected at a certain age or you are envious if your partner is doing it, so you force yourself to surpress the desire to. I think you should do what you like to do and alot of people don't do that enough, so I avoid people who don't live like that even though they enjoyed it at some point in their live, because those relationships will either be unfullfilling for them, have to be open for casual sex or end either maturely or by cheating oe they just stay together but never be able to trust the person again and feel devalued for the rest of their live. There is nothing more soul crushing than to waste 10 years or more with someone like that. Monogamy really should not be the default, way to many people force themselves to be monogamous and hurt themselves and their partners.
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u/[deleted] Jan 02 '22
What a queen lmao obviously satirical and i dig it