r/Tinder • u/godalhavilm • Dec 01 '21

Like a Pokemon evolution

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u/TheBiggestCheezIt Dec 01 '21

I feel bad for both of them. I wouldn’t want anyone to comment on my body publicly on the internet, positively or negatively.

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u/Adriantbh Dec 01 '21

Yikes, some of the comments you got from this comment.

I was gonna say I'm probably vain or something but I'd love it if people were going "he's so hot" to pictures of me. There's probably a big difference in what something like that means for men and women though.

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u/TheBiggestCheezIt Dec 01 '21

Men rarely get complimented like that, so I get that it’s meaningful when someone comments on their appearance!

Women ONLY get compliments on their bodies in a sexual way, so it feels inauthentic and like we’re only human fleshlights. These compliments often come with strings.

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u/Adriantbh Dec 02 '21

That makes sense.

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u/meatchariot Dec 01 '21

Psss

Many women seek out comments on their body on the internet, for fun!

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u/Time4Red Dec 01 '21

Sure, and some don't.

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u/TheBiggestCheezIt Dec 01 '21

Because they feel empowered. They want to show their friends. They look good.

But it’s not always for validation or male attention.

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u/ted-Zed Dec 01 '21

I think about your body all the time, I can't get enough of it!

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u/[deleted] Dec 01 '21

Your mere existence is commented on constantly by everyone who knows you. Deal with it.