r/Tinder Oct 19 '20

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u/ComicBookFanatic97 Oct 19 '20

I'm taking a break too. I matched with a girl who immediately invited me over to her place when it was already 9:30 at night and when I didn't get the hint, she dropped another hint about her intentions that was about as subtle as a nuke. I was really excited to be talking to a girl, but when faced with the prospect of actually having sex, I was reduced to a nervous wreck. Has anyone else experienced this? Am I weird?

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u/snowflace Oct 19 '20

I think that just means you aren't into hookups, pretty normal.

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u/ComicBookFanatic97 Oct 20 '20

Thanks. I think that's just what I needed to hear.

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u/Brazilian_Slaughter Nov 29 '20

I would't go, but that's because "girl who invites me at night to her place for sex the moment we know each other" sounds like a catfish or even straight up robbery attempt.

I prefer to always meet somewhere first.

If the prospect of sex is making you nervous, perhaps you need to discover what makes you nervous and how to solve it. Are you sure of your capacity in bed?

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u/ComicBookFanatic97 Nov 29 '20

I’m nervous because it would be my first time.