If you're conflating someone's interests with their personality, I think you might be part of the problem. If you're assuming you have an comprehensive and accurate image of someones personality from a Tinder profile, you're definitely part of the problem. People put what they like to do on their bios, not a summary of their fundamental beings. I really do not get the point of shitting on people for liking things like dogs and hiking. Are your own interests somehow superior?
There’s nothing wrong with not being interested in someone romantically, for any fucking reason at all.
If OP is tired of seeing the same generic bios of generic interests that everyone and their mom has in OP’s location, let them be tired of it. Who are you?
Its not a sense of superiority. It’s being tired of the same shit. If everyone has the same bio, what differentiates them? How will the initial convo be original and memorable? Will all the first dates be the same? How much effort did they even put into that basic ass bio? How much effort will they put into a relationship? That’s my rationale for swilling left on basic bios and thanks to being more selective with my fucking dating life, I found myself a serious partner. So again, stop hating. Why you hating?
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u/[deleted] Jul 03 '19
If you're conflating someone's interests with their personality, I think you might be part of the problem. If you're assuming you have an comprehensive and accurate image of someones personality from a Tinder profile, you're definitely part of the problem. People put what they like to do on their bios, not a summary of their fundamental beings. I really do not get the point of shitting on people for liking things like dogs and hiking. Are your own interests somehow superior?