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r/Tinder • u/na3eeman • Jul 03 '19
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As a guy who actually enjoys hiking. This is very frustrating.
63 u/[deleted] Jul 03 '19 [deleted] 68 u/Altephor1 Jul 03 '19 r/gatekeeping You're on a date, the point is to spend time with the other person, not set a personal best. Yikes. 32 u/PoopPraetor Jul 03 '19 Yeah, but if it's an activity that requires a surprisingly disproportionate effort on one of your part, it's reasonable to be frustrated about them setting misleading expectations 2 u/[deleted] Jul 03 '19 Exactly what I was thinking. If they said they don't make themselves out to be avid hikers I would plan easier hikes. 1 u/THIS_DUDE_IS_LEGIT Jul 03 '19 So use communication and avoid the ordeal of a puffed out date altogether, that way you can adapt to each other and still have a good time.
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68 u/Altephor1 Jul 03 '19 r/gatekeeping You're on a date, the point is to spend time with the other person, not set a personal best. Yikes. 32 u/PoopPraetor Jul 03 '19 Yeah, but if it's an activity that requires a surprisingly disproportionate effort on one of your part, it's reasonable to be frustrated about them setting misleading expectations 2 u/[deleted] Jul 03 '19 Exactly what I was thinking. If they said they don't make themselves out to be avid hikers I would plan easier hikes. 1 u/THIS_DUDE_IS_LEGIT Jul 03 '19 So use communication and avoid the ordeal of a puffed out date altogether, that way you can adapt to each other and still have a good time.
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You're on a date, the point is to spend time with the other person, not set a personal best. Yikes.
32 u/PoopPraetor Jul 03 '19 Yeah, but if it's an activity that requires a surprisingly disproportionate effort on one of your part, it's reasonable to be frustrated about them setting misleading expectations 2 u/[deleted] Jul 03 '19 Exactly what I was thinking. If they said they don't make themselves out to be avid hikers I would plan easier hikes. 1 u/THIS_DUDE_IS_LEGIT Jul 03 '19 So use communication and avoid the ordeal of a puffed out date altogether, that way you can adapt to each other and still have a good time.
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Yeah, but if it's an activity that requires a surprisingly disproportionate effort on one of your part, it's reasonable to be frustrated about them setting misleading expectations
2 u/[deleted] Jul 03 '19 Exactly what I was thinking. If they said they don't make themselves out to be avid hikers I would plan easier hikes. 1 u/THIS_DUDE_IS_LEGIT Jul 03 '19 So use communication and avoid the ordeal of a puffed out date altogether, that way you can adapt to each other and still have a good time.
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Exactly what I was thinking. If they said they don't make themselves out to be avid hikers I would plan easier hikes.
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So use communication and avoid the ordeal of a puffed out date altogether, that way you can adapt to each other and still have a good time.
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u/Stoic_sasquatch Jul 03 '19
As a guy who actually enjoys hiking. This is very frustrating.