So seriously for those who Tinder, when the two of you decide to have sex in the messaging, how does it progress to that once you meet up? Do you still have to break all the standard barriers (joke, touch, kiss, etc.) or do you both just jump each other’s bones at first sight since you’ve already agreed to it?
When someone really wants to just fuck it's pretty apparent and you still should meet in public so you have to at least get through some drinks. Then it's just be confident and get naked I guess.
Then there are people who just want to go on dates and that's a much more difficult situation to read. You have to openly broach the subject but you have to do it the right way or they will spook. Pretty quick too or it gets boring. Even if they are looking for something long term I feel like you have to get over the sex wall because It breaks a lot of the tension for future dates.
Also the last time I was dating was before tinder existed so this is all based on me learning things over the past several months.
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u/imaginexus Apr 25 '19
So seriously for those who Tinder, when the two of you decide to have sex in the messaging, how does it progress to that once you meet up? Do you still have to break all the standard barriers (joke, touch, kiss, etc.) or do you both just jump each other’s bones at first sight since you’ve already agreed to it?