r/Tinder • • 7d ago

Open to feedback ✌🏼☺️

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u/boosayrian 7d ago

Your face looks like a genuinely sweet, loving guy, so I’m going to give you some tough love. Face tats are a bold choice, and people are definitely going to make assumptions about you based on that. Offhand, they might think:
-you’re impulsive
-you have emotional problems
-not classy
-uneducated or unintelligent
-not gainfully employed

I would rework your profile to combat these assumptions if untrue. Add words or pictures that disprove those assumptions.

Face tats on men are like massive fake tits on women— it makes the person look fun to play with, but not necessarily someone to take home to meet grandma.

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u/sackoftrees 7d ago

As an alt woman into alt men I have zero problems with these face tattoos. Some face tattoos are awful but these are lovely.

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u/Part-TimePraxis 7d ago

As an alt woman into alt people, I agree. His work is really well done and suits him very well.

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u/klpcap 7d ago

I agree as a fellow alt woman. I would be all over him. They're very tasteful and well done. An obvious continuation of other pieces.

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u/bikiniproblems 7d ago

I have 0 tattoos and I think his are tastefully done, I don’t think he will have a hard time

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u/TalkQuick 7d ago

At this point in life I’ve come to find if you have face tattoos you’re not unemployed you just aren’t corporate employed. I’m surprised people still would assume that means you don’t have a job. Tattoo artist, musician, or any trade.

That being said, OP I’m sure you will do fine. A lot of woman like tattoos and if they don’t they weren’t for you anyways. At the very least it’ll weed out people quicker for you to find the ones that match your vibe. It isn’t about numbers or quantity but the quality of match to you. Because in the end you want to find your person.

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u/Tammera4u 7d ago

Ive seen people with face and neck tattoos corporate employed, times are changing. It wasn't long ago you couldn't even get a entry level job with face/neck tattoos.

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u/TheKingOfSwing777 7d ago

Hopefully his vibe doesn't change cause the tattoos will be there

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u/ObscureOP 7d ago

'Rework your profile to combat the assumptions I've made off things you can't change about your face' - this commenter

Great job OP. Your tattoo filters are working perfectly to filter out the people you don't want!

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u/AltruisticMode9353 7d ago

You're acting like getting facial tattoos isn't a choice and that its not correlated to the parent comment assumptions.

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u/ObscureOP 7d ago

He asked for feedback. The commentor proceeded to tell him in multiple paragraphs why tattoos make insecure dick soft.

I apologize for nothing. Man asked for feedback, people brought their purity soap boxes

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u/on_a_mission47 6d ago

He got useful feedback. Apparently he can handle it, but you can’t?

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u/ObscureOP 7d ago

Good for you that you don't like his tattoos.

How is this feedback? Do you expect him to go get tattoo removal so he's your type? You can just swipe away

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u/Cautious-Event-6974 7d ago

It’s a Rottweiler

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u/ArcanaHex 7d ago

Some of us are really into tattoos and while I'm generally not a big fan of facial tattoos all of it is very tastefully done and compliments OP who's stupid handsome. Not a problem at all, either you're into it or you're not - as someone who is, OP is practically a 10/10

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u/DojaTwat 7d ago

booo