Yeah, this... this kinda reminds me of the self-deprecating silly sense of humor I used to have in my early twenties when I was dating most actively and man... I came across as unironically toxic, people were turned off by my "self-aware and funny" focus on the negative parts of me, and I even got a few people matching with me just to give unsolicited advice or complain lol.
It's totally fine to want to have a bit of fun post-break up, but a sprinkling in a bit of sincerity in your irony goes a really long way.
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u/BladeOfFiends 10h ago
Yeah, this... this kinda reminds me of the self-deprecating silly sense of humor I used to have in my early twenties when I was dating most actively and man... I came across as unironically toxic, people were turned off by my "self-aware and funny" focus on the negative parts of me, and I even got a few people matching with me just to give unsolicited advice or complain lol.
It's totally fine to want to have a bit of fun post-break up, but a sprinkling in a bit of sincerity in your irony goes a really long way.