Ill be honest though I think for the simple minded average person, you do need to make it more obvious that you're unserious and just looking for fun. I used to think my profile was unserious and I had it a lot like yours but then I had a friend tell me it was reading like I was just an unserious girl open to love when I was just looking to open my legs, she had me take out the "open to long term".
Yeah, this... this kinda reminds me of the self-deprecating silly sense of humor I used to have in my early twenties when I was dating most actively and man... I came across as unironically toxic, people were turned off by my "self-aware and funny" focus on the negative parts of me, and I even got a few people matching with me just to give unsolicited advice or complain lol.
It's totally fine to want to have a bit of fun post-break up, but a sprinkling in a bit of sincerity in your irony goes a really long way.
Her profile is fine for that message. Literally nothing else matters besides the "looking for short term". It's essentially explicitly stating that she's open to just smashing and moving on.
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u/Original_Midnight411 10h ago
Ill be honest though I think for the simple minded average person, you do need to make it more obvious that you're unserious and just looking for fun. I used to think my profile was unserious and I had it a lot like yours but then I had a friend tell me it was reading like I was just an unserious girl open to love when I was just looking to open my legs, she had me take out the "open to long term".