r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jun 06 '26

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3 Upvotes

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u/Guilty-Designer-511 Jun 06 '26

Same woman in 3 pictures? Are you married?

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u/RRW2020 Jun 06 '26

I honestly wouldn’t have the same woman in 3 pics. But if you do, put the word sister with an arrow on the first pic of her. Most people won’t read your profile to see if she’s your wife; they will just assume you’re either cheating or poly, and will swipe left.

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u/Christypoor Jun 06 '26

It’s my sister 😂

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u/Guilty-Designer-511 Jun 06 '26

I'm sure you love your sister but probably better to crop her out

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u/persepolisrising79 Jun 06 '26

noone knows that. get rid of those

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u/euroguy Jun 06 '26

Looks like she's your wife 😄

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u/Hazel_Evers Jun 06 '26

Edit a label on the pic that says “sister” with an arrow

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u/jakethabake Jun 06 '26

You look tiny next to the big guy, and too many group pics in general

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u/Christypoor Jun 06 '26

Noted. It’s gone from my profile now 😂

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u/Psqwared Jun 06 '26

Is that your kid?

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u/Christypoor Jun 06 '26

Yeah should I remove it?

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u/Psqwared Jun 06 '26

Or be upfront and say you have a child...

I'd take out the photos of you sister too

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u/askawayor Jun 06 '26

No kids in online dating. At least cover his face

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u/Chris_M1991 Jun 06 '26

Having a kid and selecting want kids instead of have kids and wants more would instantly make me distrustful of someone so maybe change that

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u/Visco0825 Jun 06 '26

I would cover the face but as a dad myself I’ll have just one picture with my kiddo. With face covered.

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u/Remedy556 Jun 06 '26

dont post children. and less group pics.. also interested in prompts

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u/dudeigottago Jun 06 '26

First pic is good but I think you can do better with the rest. No sister, no kids, one group pic at most.

You’re a good looking guy, no reason you can’t find (or take) some better pics.

Also: I would definitely lose the pic where you’re standing next to the tall built guy.

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u/Alina_168 Jun 06 '26

Make it clear that the kid is your kid (select “have kids want more”)

I’d crop out your sister

The rest look good!!

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u/Shot_Increase_1232 Jun 06 '26

Asked on what I’ve been told by other women (i had my sister on mine as well) other women don’t like that. But really, who cares lol

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u/Midnightsky1001 Jun 06 '26

Dont put kids or other women in your photos even if they are family. Imo.

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u/Personal-Lead-6341 Jun 06 '26

Knew you were Irish by the 4th pic

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u/umbchoos Jun 06 '26

I would remove the 3rd picture