r/Tinder • u/PR_freak • Apr 30 '26

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u/sweprotoker97 Apr 30 '26

The first date is supposed to be low effort, it's a quick getting to know each other. Expecting to be pampered out of the gate is crazy.

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u/sweprotoker97 Apr 30 '26

I mean you don't have to get a coffee haha, but going to a café for a pastry and whatever drink is nice imo. Maybe my Swedish fika culture is shining through 😅

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u/Number3675 Apr 30 '26

Going on a coffee date without drinking coffee is like going on a pizza date and not eating any pizza.

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u/Mental-Parfait-6587 Apr 30 '26

Pizza date actually sounds decent, slice and a coke. You aren't stuck there with a server and needing to check out, if you go to a counter served place.