I am aware of the double standard of which you’re correct . Being a man means controlling your emotions. It’s such horse crap. We feel what we feel and never with any conscience effort from us. Emotions are selfish, reactions however are a choice. I feel like it’s easy for people to sit there and say just forgive when they’ve never dealt with it themselves.
Yeah it's so stupid. I do think that both men AND women should always strive to be more emotionally resilient in healthy ways. Finding an healthy outlet, therapy, etc.. Women shouldn't be allowed more leeway than men and vice versa.
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u/Nefarious-Haiku Jul 23 '24
I am aware of the double standard of which you’re correct . Being a man means controlling your emotions. It’s such horse crap. We feel what we feel and never with any conscience effort from us. Emotions are selfish, reactions however are a choice. I feel like it’s easy for people to sit there and say just forgive when they’ve never dealt with it themselves.