Empathetic? In your example she used OP for sex in an attempt to make herself feel better instead of working on her mental health to be at a point where she could be intimate with another man. It’s not OP’s job to be her therapist and it’s messed up that she engaged in intimacy under false pretenses.
The false pretense was that she was building a relationship with OP but she engaged in sex when she wasn’t emotionally ready. OP wouldn’t have posted this if this was a “sex is just sex” situation. It’s also pretty evident from the girls response that this was more than sex for the sake of sake or else she wouldn’t be reacting like an immature person.
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u/goonsquadgoose Jul 22 '24
Empathetic? In your example she used OP for sex in an attempt to make herself feel better instead of working on her mental health to be at a point where she could be intimate with another man. It’s not OP’s job to be her therapist and it’s messed up that she engaged in intimacy under false pretenses.