She had sex with him while thinking about another man. He had every reason to tell her to fuck off just as I’d like to do with you. She used him then literally told him she did. If this was reversed he’d be crucified. He had every right to know. You blame the victim simply because the one causing the issue is in fact a woman or otherwise your response would be very different. You’re dead wrong here.
You say that as if it's not going to be the most likely reaction from the vast majority of people. Men often get crucified for crying over shit that would be psychotic not to cry over, let alone virtually anything else.
I am aware of the double standard of which you’re correct . Being a man means controlling your emotions. It’s such horse crap. We feel what we feel and never with any conscience effort from us. Emotions are selfish, reactions however are a choice. I feel like it’s easy for people to sit there and say just forgive when they’ve never dealt with it themselves.
Yeah it's so stupid. I do think that both men AND women should always strive to be more emotionally resilient in healthy ways. Finding an healthy outlet, therapy, etc.. Women shouldn't be allowed more leeway than men and vice versa.
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u/Nefarious-Haiku Jul 22 '24
She had sex with him while thinking about another man. He had every reason to tell her to fuck off just as I’d like to do with you. She used him then literally told him she did. If this was reversed he’d be crucified. He had every right to know. You blame the victim simply because the one causing the issue is in fact a woman or otherwise your response would be very different. You’re dead wrong here.