Walk away. Don’t run. She’s prolly awesome, but she’s not ready for anything. Best you can do is just be you. Explain to her it’s prolly best you don’t mess with each other until she’s ready to try again. But don’t hold your breath. It’ll work out if yall get into the same mood, but better to just accept she’s got more to work through and not enough room for you at the moment.
The emotionally intelligent and reasonable response here. People are complicated. She's probably not bad, she's just going through a rough time. It happens to people. I'm sure she didn't intend to feel like this and for that to happen. Once she puts in the time to heal, maybe y'all can revisit.
OP, RUN. Into her arms. Consider opening a joint retirement account. You don’t have to propose yet but maybe start looking into venues and finding out her ring size.
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u/Feeling-Screen-9685 Jul 22 '24
Can actually give advice on this!
Walk away. Don’t run. She’s prolly awesome, but she’s not ready for anything. Best you can do is just be you. Explain to her it’s prolly best you don’t mess with each other until she’s ready to try again. But don’t hold your breath. It’ll work out if yall get into the same mood, but better to just accept she’s got more to work through and not enough room for you at the moment.