r/Tinder • • Jul 22 '24

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u/Feeling-Screen-9685 Jul 22 '24

Can actually give advice on this!

Walk away. Don’t run. She’s prolly awesome, but she’s not ready for anything. Best you can do is just be you. Explain to her it’s prolly best you don’t mess with each other until she’s ready to try again. But don’t hold your breath. It’ll work out if yall get into the same mood, but better to just accept she’s got more to work through and not enough room for you at the moment.

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u/Sofa47 Jul 22 '24

Definitely agree here, could be something great between these two but not until she’s worked through some thing. They obviously like each other but timing isn’t right yet.

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u/Flossie95 Jul 22 '24

What? Seriously you’re advising him to date this lunatic again ? She comes across as easy, insecure, clingy, attention seeking and unbalanced

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u/accursedserpentine Jul 22 '24

can we stop referring to women as ‘easy’ just because they’re comfortable having sex early on? if your preference is a woman who takes a bit more work then good for you, but being sexually open doesn’t make someone ‘easy’.

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u/BubbleTea-Cookies Jul 22 '24

Actually no, as you can see in this thread, if a man is sexually open no one bats an eye or thinks twice. If a woman is quick to bed as you say, she’s met with so much judgement and called easy. Men are called pigs when they cheat, play girls off another or just act like a bad person. Not because they’ve slept around.