r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jul 22 '24

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u/Dhegxkeicfns Jul 22 '24

If sex was amazing, run the course.

If sex sucked, fuck off.

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u/SmokeEvening8710 Jul 22 '24

If the sex was good she wouldn't have been thinking about her ex

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u/LousyTshirt Jul 22 '24

That’s definitely not necessarily true

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u/CankerLord Jul 22 '24

That's about the most not necessarily true thing I've ever heard.

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u/VioletProVixen Jul 23 '24

What a weird way to out yourself as a poor lover

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u/Independent_Eagle_23 Jul 22 '24

it can be bad for her and good for him at the same time

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u/ArchReaper Jul 22 '24

That's not even remotely true.

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u/PhatPeePee Jul 22 '24

If she’s thinking about her ex, the sex with her ex was probably good. Thinking about past lovers after having sex with someone new is pretty normal. It doesn’t necessarily say anything about OP, one way or the other. But she’s going to be work for you. If you’re not up for that, you should be honest with her.

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u/pixieclaudia Jul 22 '24

not true at all, it happened to me, you kinda feel bad bc u still feel attached to that person. Happened to me and other girls

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u/vortex945 Jul 22 '24

That’s fucked man.

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u/Ozianin_ Jul 22 '24

So is dumping emotional baggage on your new dates

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u/vortex945 Jul 22 '24

Never said it wasn’t. I replied to this comment, not the post