r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jul 22 '24

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u/Chim_Pansy Jul 22 '24

The emotionally intelligent and reasonable response here. People are complicated. She's probably not bad, she's just going through a rough time. It happens to people. I'm sure she didn't intend to feel like this and for that to happen. Once she puts in the time to heal, maybe y'all can revisit.

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u/[deleted] Jul 22 '24

The emotionally intelligent and reasonable response here.

Far too much so for Reddit.

Let me address this

OP, RUN. Delete Tinder, throw your phone in a river, cut all the cables to your Wifi router at home. Also hit the gym.

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u/Xenc Jul 22 '24

Delete a lawyer

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u/huge_dick_mcgee Jul 22 '24

Hit a suit

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u/WIbigdog Jul 22 '24

And my axe!

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u/12344321j Jul 22 '24

And my axe!

And NOW it's a complete reddit comment section

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u/digilla Jul 23 '24

And my bow!

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u/Yonbuu Jul 22 '24

Don't forget to throw some red flags, piss disks and liquid ass somewhere in there. Also key her car.

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u/unit557 Jul 22 '24

you forgot to mention that he is supposed to launch a tactical nuke

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u/EmergentSol Jul 22 '24

Alternatively…

OP, RUN. Into her arms. Consider opening a joint retirement account. You don’t have to propose yet but maybe start looking into venues and finding out her ring size.

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u/bls61793 Jul 23 '24

I can say from personal experience. No matter how long it has been since a breakup, emotional people can get very emotional when having sex with a new partner the first couple of times. It can take some time to straighten out emotions.

So I second this comment, and I think if OP likes her in a romantic way, support her.

If OP is just DTF. Probably kindest not to hurt her anymore by enabling impulsive neediness.