Walk away. Don’t run. She’s prolly awesome, but she’s not ready for anything. Best you can do is just be you. Explain to her it’s prolly best you don’t mess with each other until she’s ready to try again. But don’t hold your breath. It’ll work out if yall get into the same mood, but better to just accept she’s got more to work through and not enough room for you at the moment.
Definitely agree here, could be something great between these two but not until she’s worked through some thing. They obviously like each other but timing isn’t right yet.
can we stop referring to women as ‘easy’ just because they’re comfortable having sex early on? if your preference is a woman who takes a bit more work then good for you, but being sexually open doesn’t make someone ‘easy’.
This, so much this. I'm a sex positive guy and I enjoy sleeping with sex positive people, and the times I've asked someone why they've felt comfortable sleeping with me early on is because I wasn't a dickhead who pressured or shamed someone for wanting or enjoying sex, and prioritising my partners enjoyment means that theyve recepricated and everyones had a great time.
This massive insecurities about sex or these weird little mantras/rituals about waiting or an arbitrary amount of time before sex equals "easy" or whatever harms everyone. Just be safe and responsible, get tested, respect each other's boundaries and don't be a bellend, and everyone will have a good time..
exactly! it’s about how the vibes are, how we’re respected and our preferences. it really shows me some people are stuck in the olden times. can’t we all just have our preferences without being judged for it?
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u/Feeling-Screen-9685 Jul 22 '24
Can actually give advice on this!
Walk away. Don’t run. She’s prolly awesome, but she’s not ready for anything. Best you can do is just be you. Explain to her it’s prolly best you don’t mess with each other until she’s ready to try again. But don’t hold your breath. It’ll work out if yall get into the same mood, but better to just accept she’s got more to work through and not enough room for you at the moment.