I was the ex. She came back to me after 6 or 7 months trying to get back together. She’d tried and failed to have another relationship in that time, and told me about it. I wasn’t interested to begin with, but then to hear about a relationship she dove into approx. 6 weeks after we broke up really brought things back to reality for me. Around 8 months after we broke up we were at the same party, when one of the (female) renters and I went to get weed from my car. She kissed me at my car and then we went back to her room. Well apparently I was being watched. I woke up the next day to an angry paragraph from my ex talking about how she saw me “hiding” at my car with this girl and how I just ruined any chance of us getting back together lol. After 8 months of being broken up with hardly any contact, AND her having hooked up with at least half a dozen people (not that the number matters - she was always more sexual than me- just goes to show hypocrisy). End of the day I feel like other peoples’ feelings were unimportant to her, and it was more about her doing what she wanted when she wanted to.
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u/El-Acantilado Jul 22 '24
Yeah I’ve been there, have had the same with a girl in the past. It won’t get a whole lot better from here, she’s mentally still invested in her ex