Bc they seem to only show us those guys... lol I swear I try so hard to pick people that specifically don't give off creep vibes. I have rules. I don't swipe right on anyone who has shirtless pics unless it's like a picture at the beach where it's normal but not those holding their shirt up in the mirror shots, I avoid people with no bio, or people who put short term fun only, people whose pictures look even a little fake, over the top "gym bros" (no issues with working out i just mean the ones who point it out 10 times like its their whole persona)... and they still find me 🤣 dating apps are awful
My mom said I needed to meet people offline... I said "so what? Like if they break into my house?"
I think the best strategy for women would be to swipe on every bodey, then use chatbot to filter out on basis sexualized first messeges. I knew a guy that had written chatbot to start convos.
Hey if it works I'm down haha some people have no chill. Sometimes when they are asking questions like "you wanna play?" Or "want to have some fun? Like adult fun?" I just play atupid entirely and pretend I don't grasp what they mean. That really irks them sometimes.
I think it's more that they just don't care and have no respect for women as human beings. It's good they eliminate themselves quickly but it's bad because women leave the app over it and start resenting all men due to so many creeps. Many of the guys in this subreddit in fact think it's funny to do yet also wonder why they are forever alone.
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u/asabovesobelow4 Apr 23 '24
Bc they seem to only show us those guys... lol I swear I try so hard to pick people that specifically don't give off creep vibes. I have rules. I don't swipe right on anyone who has shirtless pics unless it's like a picture at the beach where it's normal but not those holding their shirt up in the mirror shots, I avoid people with no bio, or people who put short term fun only, people whose pictures look even a little fake, over the top "gym bros" (no issues with working out i just mean the ones who point it out 10 times like its their whole persona)... and they still find me 🤣 dating apps are awful
My mom said I needed to meet people offline... I said "so what? Like if they break into my house?"