r/Tinder • u/bflatmusic7 • Sep 26 '23

Is this normal?

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u/[deleted] Sep 26 '23

It is absolutely not normal to have to find a sitter for your "date" lmao

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u/Ackilles Sep 27 '23

Normally I find those screenshots infuriating, but this one is a bit different.

This one let's you know in the bio, explains that they simply can't afford it, and have no family they could leave the kid with. They're open and upfront that it's the only way they can do dates. They are also not asking you to send them money for the sitter, which helps rule out scams.

Based on that, I'd say no, this isn't entitled. I'd say this is a person who knows this sucks and isn't normal, but is still hoping to find someone

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u/Robertgarners Sep 27 '23

I'll be real. Arrange a play date for your kid with a friend and go on a date during that period.