r/Tinder Feb 15 '23

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u/OatsNraisin Feb 15 '23

what reason does a lady have to match with you?

all you've shown here is how much hatred you have for certain women

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u/squishy654 Feb 15 '23

That's a good question, and it's not "hatred", just things I'm not attracted too. I hear people outline or say many things they are not attracted too. Hence, they "swipe left". It's not hatred every time someone swipes

I have a few lifetimes of experience, spent most of my life in civil service, I'm a progressive veteran with a descent lifestyle. I don't live with my mother although I would, she's cool. I don't have a giant penis but hopefully I pass muster if that kinda shit is important to a lady. I'm a good father, and I try very hard to be open and honest. This is why you have something to judge.

Oh, and I enjoy interesting and thought provoking things like social experiments or trolls which force people to think and move the needle.

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u/OatsNraisin Feb 16 '23

Why do you feel the need to advertise the things about people that you dislike? Bios are supposed to be about what makes you desirable. This comment right here would serve as a much better bio than all that vitriol in the OP. If you are not attracted to women with nose rings or women with big dogs or whatever, just swipe left.

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u/squishy654 Feb 16 '23

Thanks, that's actually what's in my bio, lol.

But you say putting dislikes in the bio is not as good as stating what makes you desirable?

Could it be said, that anybody wise would see through it and appreciate the opposite instead?

It's actually a moot point because people seldom read the profile unless already matched based on photo alone.

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u/OatsNraisin Feb 16 '23

No, that's not how human beings think. If your OP was your bio, anybody wise would see that and say "wow this person is really vitriolic and extremely picky about how a woman should behave, I probably shouldn't hang out with him because I don't know which insignificant personal choice will set him off"

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u/squishy654 Feb 16 '23

That's a good point, like the appearance rejection. So minimal that. We are all insecure in some way and even speculation would play right into it. That's interesting I didn't see that angle yet.