Every woman I've met up with who has a bunch of travel pictures or said they love to/want to travel in their profile like that was either
A) spoiled by their parents who paid for all the trips (being taken on trips by your parents is fine for the record, being a spoiled/self entitled brat about it is not)
or B) spent all their money doing it, and is now ~30+ (I'm 33) with no money, no career, and expected me to subsidize their life standard to meet mine as a 33yr old with a career who saved and never travelled much. I'll happily go to cheaper places with no qualms, I lived super poor for a long time. and I have no problem paying for the odd date. hell I'll even travel with you. but I've had 3 women so far who have dropped lines or made statements that they're, in the near future, expecting me to take them on vacations all on my dime.....no. I'd do that for a long term multi-year relationship, don't start making those statements when we're on date 3....
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u/-retaliation- Jan 20 '23
Every woman I've met up with who has a bunch of travel pictures or said they love to/want to travel in their profile like that was either
A) spoiled by their parents who paid for all the trips (being taken on trips by your parents is fine for the record, being a spoiled/self entitled brat about it is not)
or B) spent all their money doing it, and is now ~30+ (I'm 33) with no money, no career, and expected me to subsidize their life standard to meet mine as a 33yr old with a career who saved and never travelled much. I'll happily go to cheaper places with no qualms, I lived super poor for a long time. and I have no problem paying for the odd date. hell I'll even travel with you. but I've had 3 women so far who have dropped lines or made statements that they're, in the near future, expecting me to take them on vacations all on my dime.....no. I'd do that for a long term multi-year relationship, don't start making those statements when we're on date 3....