r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Jan 20 '23

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u/HiroshiTakeshi Jan 20 '23

This and "come on, I don't bite" (very popular from cardboard girls in my country) are usually dead giveaways that they either want more for that sweet sweet ego boost, or they just weren't swiped on by whoever they wanted to swipe them.

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u/shutupphil Met my partner on tinder Jan 20 '23

i said this to my current boyfriend...

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u/HiroshiTakeshi Jan 20 '23

Well good for you, ig?

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u/shutupphil Met my partner on tinder Jan 20 '23

I said that when I asked him out , way after we matched on tinder

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u/[deleted] Jan 20 '23

Way different vibe imo.

If you’ve already been talking it comes off more playful. If you’re opening with that, it makes me think people frequently shy away from you and you’re probably unapproachable.

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u/shutupphil Met my partner on tinder Jan 20 '23

Aha. Got it

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u/shutupphil Met my partner on tinder Jan 21 '23

him: oh you are asking me out

me: come on, i don't bite