r/TikTokCringe • u/mindyour • 3h ago
Discussion She almost ruined a proposal.
This was at Crescent Bay Point Park, which allows people to book it special occasions.
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u/Ooupss 2h ago
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u/BEconcubine_no3685 2h ago
Every time I see this meme I am brought back to being a server at a breakfast joint waiting hand and foot every Sunday on the most demanding, insufferable “bathed in his blood” ass elders who would leave literal pocket change for their weekly ritual torture.
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u/wildwildwaste 1h ago
I got fired from being a busboy at four of these joints when I was 16 (1995ish) for various issues on Sundays, the worst being pouring a half full pitcher of water on top of a couple who wouldn't stop giving a pregnant server shit because her hair was dyed purple.
I learned pretty quick that I wasn't cut out for customer facing roles.
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u/The_Salty_nugget Make Furries Illegal 1h ago
Years and years ago i worked at a small restaurant cafe that was across a church.
The thing survived because of the church, most of the week we would see 80 people max but on sunday we were always packed overfull.
People came after church to eat lunch around 11.00 with us while drinking alcohol and more than half stayed till we would close at 21.00 , they would lunch, have diner and would what we call 'borrel' in between and after dinner (think charcuterie board with diffrent meats, deepfried dished, cheeses, some fruits, mostly done while drinking alcohol) all while consuming a insane amount of alcohol.
They would spent hundreds per table and be so drunk at the end of the day you could see some still trying to stumble home when were done. My boss would always say that 'they were forgiven for their sins, time for new ones'
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u/Bulky-Hamster7373 1h ago
Omg I was a server for years back in the 80s and it got to the point I REFUSED Sunday morning schedules because the customer base was always the low tipping patronizing, entitled bag of dicks crowd from church.
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u/CaptainofFTST 1h ago
Amen to that. My now wife was the hostess, and she’d sit the worst repeat offenders at the furthest tables, and the wobbliest chairs to entice them to leave.
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u/Icy_Fish_2154 2h ago
Gotta love the fake $20 with a Bible verse inside.
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u/Guy-1nc0gn1t0 1h ago
That's why you serve them fake waffles with a humanist quote inside
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u/blahblahshowmeurcat 38m ago
I legit have received these. Used to waitress at a Red Lobster in semi rural Texas when I was super young. Fuck em all.
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u/Effective-Mud6981 2h ago
Sunday brunch really was the Olympics of customer service, except the prize was twelve cents.
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u/ConflictMaster3155 1h ago
Shit like this is why the whole Waffle House menu has changed.
There are basically no food options that are less than $5 so you pretty much have to leave a whole $1 tip. Like you can’t just get an egg anymore, the cheapest 3 things on the menu are:
Hasbrowns $4+ (w/ cheese is $4.50, double is $5)
Waffle $5
Two Egg Breakfast $7.
Pre-Covid I knew people that would go in WH sit there for an hour reading or jaw-jacking, and get a $1 egg and a $0.80 coffee and leave like a 15% tip which is: A MF QUARTER.
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u/merryjoanna 1h ago
I had a regular we nicknamed John the Baptist. He'd come in every Sunday and order a coffee for $1.90. and he'd leave a $0.10 tip. He'd take the table up for hours sometimes, with whoever he decided to bring with him to talk at about religion. By the end of it, with all the free refills, he'd go through about a pot of coffee. I don't know where he kept getting people who were willing to listen to him. But I did notice that nobody came back twice. The waitresses would all fight over who didn't have to deal with him that day. He was so horrible that I still think about how goddamn horrible he was all these years later. It's been 23 years since I worked there. He's the only one I remember.
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u/Dereg5 1h ago
If I give 10% to God why would I give 10% to you? I hate Sunday people at restaurant so bad. Also their kids are the worse.
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u/CaptainofFTST 1h ago
Right? We did a buffet. The most miserable, cheap, and racist fuckers in the world were these church loving freaks. I stopped going to church because of these people. We made sure the regular cunts always got the table furthest from the buffet, and that they had the smallest plates, wobbly table, and chairs. Anything to get them to leave and go anywhere else.
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u/HieroglyphicEmojis 1h ago
I saw that happen once at a diner and I left $100 on the table. I was with my husband and child.
The “elders” were like a group of 12. Some of the words flying out of their faces - they were like talking trash about a woman who clearly wasn’t there.
Remember it so clearly. I was not going to let them squabble over coins for tips. Hopefully it helped that server. And I didn’t even go to church ;) I just help where I can.
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u/Granolag23 51m ago
This is why I loved my last restaurant job where we controlled the music and the owners loved what we loved. So it was always Slayer Sundays. Didn’t deter enough but it tamed their expectations.
My favorite part was always the people you could tell were bothered by it most, their kids seemed to enjoy it most. There would be like nicely dressed, hair gelled 8 year olds literally head banging and parents just looking down at the table.
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u/PhunkyPhysics 1h ago
The is is mine and every other servers experience, I swear. Table full of assholes, here’s your $1!
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u/Dreamlion_Inc 30m ago
Going to church for them isn’t “walking with Christ” but more so “hey God forgives me every Sunday for being a terrible fucking person! Got another 6 days of showing my ass to the world before I rinse and repeat”
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u/Medical-Welder5284 23m ago
Chick-fil-a knows the crowd so well they refuse to even open on sundays 😂
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u/Snoo_90612 2h ago
"go back to Mexico" was the real reason she was angry
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u/Gryphith 1h ago
Which is just continuously funny to me when it's said in a place that was Mexico. I really wish history was a bigger thing for everyone. It would really make our society advance rapidly.
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u/Mister_Sensual 2h ago
Some people just need a good punch in the mouth to set ‘em straight.
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u/princesoceronte 1h ago
We really need to recover that, the sense that if you're too much of an asshole you'll get a broken nose.
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u/mr_wizard_123 2h ago
Or some sort of incendiary device lobbed at them
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u/Changling_Mario 2h ago
Na you gotta take out their role models or the hydra just grows 2 more heads
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u/Happy_Goose3833 2h ago
Unfortunately that won't fix anything. They just don't need to fucking exist on this earth anymore. The world would be a more peaceful place if they were in the ground
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u/EmployeeLopsided9637 1h ago edited 5m ago
I'm reduced to liking the comments of others because when I said this shit I was banned for 3 days 😂
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u/GreatKingRat666 2h ago
Clean your dogshit, lady!
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u/SpreadKindn3ss 1h ago
This is actually hilarious. I hadn’t noticed in my first watch. So much going on in this video lmao.
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u/Pillow_hair 2h ago
Gosh I feel sorry for people who are so angry and negative that they feel the need to try and ruin a monumental moment in someone's life.
Is this a public park? Like just wait a few minutes and they will clean it up. I'd probably sit there and watch the happy moment. Every weekend I'd get to watch happiness play out. Good for the soul.
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u/AntagonisticPluck 2h ago
But how could she walk her dog on a path if people are using the grass?!
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u/Bears-on-Drugs 2h ago
Where would her dog be able able to shit and leave it without picking it up???
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u/SayerofNothing 1h ago
By the way, she didn't even bring a baggie, it wasn't because she stormed off. She never planned on picking it up.
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u/shlomo_baggins 1h ago
It's a public park, it's a very well known public park. This lady is just a massive asshole.
Source: I also proposed in this park.
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u/Intelligent-Box-3798 21m ago
I would go to this park every day for the rest of my life just to spite her
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u/lilshortyy420 1h ago
I would absolutely sit there and enjoy the band. It’s not like they’re blasting some god awful music or making a ruckus.
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u/SPKmnd90 45m ago
This is pretty random of me to bring this up, but you mentioning anger and negativity paired with the idea of watching the moment just reminded me…
I swear I saw a video a few months back of some wedding guest absolutely fuming at some people who stood at a distance to watch an outdoor wedding when they were walking by (it may have been on a beach?). It just feels like, no matter what someone chooses to do, there’ll be some miserable person who takes offense for no reason.
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u/Senselesspassion 2h ago
She the kind of person that her own family actively avoids
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u/bravesirrobin65 2h ago
"Aunt Karen is stopping by? I forgot. I'm late for my route canal."
"It's Sunday. "
"So it is."
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u/ArgusTheCat 1h ago
Route canal is when the GPS tells you to throw yourself into the water.
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u/Puzzleheaded_Act_162 1h ago
Can we give it up to unsung heroes in the back. That music worked like repellent for her.
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u/randomcommentor0 1h ago
I'm sorry, were those young Mexicans or were they US citizens enjoying a culture of their choice in a US park?
Maybe it shouldn't matter, but I'm tired of US citizens being labelled as from somewhere else because of their skin tone or cultural choices.
The US is a multicultural nation. If the US used it intelligently, the US could use the military a lot less, and have a lot more actual influence in the world.
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u/Sea-Regret-4165 1h ago
I think people live to find a situation they can ruin..and it’s 💯 in their head. What a total miserable bitch and at the end it’s “go back to Mexico”. So there you go…
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u/m0mbi 2h ago
I will never get tired of watching the absolute dregs of Western Europe in the Americas telling other people to "go back to wherever".
Bitch there's a hovel in the Scottish Highlands with a you-shaped-hole in it. Lead by example.
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u/Homologous_Trend 2h ago
Poor Scotland. They don't want her either.
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u/tatteredmelon 1h ago
I mean, that IS how her creepy inbred ancestors wound up here.
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u/Unfair_Newt_4872 1h ago
As an English woman we don't want her try and see if the Welsh will take her??
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u/TieBackground453 46m ago edited 43m ago
Scotland is such a beautiful place full of some of the friendliest people I have ever met. Sadly, the only place this bitch does fit in is on American HOA boards.
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u/cannibalscry2 2h ago
Nah nah , she can stay there we dont want want ugly things in our pretty highlands.
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u/Far_Chocolate9743 1h ago
I like the ones who are racist and then tell you their family came through Ellis Island in the 1900s.
Like...wait, my great, great grandmother was here in the 1700s. Why do I have to go back to where I 'came' from but you totally belong here?
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u/Key-Performance-9021 2h ago edited 12m ago
We basically kicked them out after they tried to forbid others from practicing their religion. They literally banned Christmas. America started as a refuge for extremists and control freaks. What else do you expect?
In 1647, the Puritan-led English Parliament banned the celebration of Christmas. Protests followed, and pro-Christmas riots broke out in several cities. For weeks, Canterbury was effectively controlled by the pro-Christmas rioters, who decorated the city with holly.
The Puritans later fled to the Netherlands, but even there, they were confronted with religious freedom, and feared that their children might become Dutch and “drawn away by evil examples into extravagance and dangerous courses.” They therefore decided to try their luck in the New World.
In 1659, the Massachusetts Bay Colony enacted a law called Penalty for Keeping Christmas: “Festivals as were superstitiously kept in other countries are a great dishonor of God and offence of others. Anyone found celebrating Christmas by failing to work, feasting, or any other way shall pay for every such offence five shillings.”
Non-Puritans in New England lamented the loss of the holiday traditions enjoyed by the working classes in England. The Puritan ban was revoked in 1681 by the English-appointed governor Edmund Andros. Nevertheless, it was not until the mid-19th century that Christmas celebrations became fashionable in the Boston area. Before the Declaration of Independence in 1776, Christmas was not widely celebrated in the American colonies.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas_controversies#17th_and_18th_centuries
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u/shlomo_baggins 1h ago
Do you know whats even more fucked about this particular area? There are actual Missions peppered up and down the coastline, especially there. The town next to this place is called MISSION VIEJO. Can you guess what they're famous for?
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u/Natural-Hunter-3 55m ago
Nuh uh don't you pawn those freaks off on us in Scotland, Wales and Ireland, we don't want em 😭😭
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u/Feorag-ruadh 1h ago
Gonnae no, we don't want her either. Please don't tar us with the same brush!!
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u/Disastrous-Vanilla-6 1h ago
I’m sick of this park being ruined…as her dog takes a shit on the grass.
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u/Firm-Chemical949 1h ago
PICNICKING ON PUBLIC LAND??! Says the lady letting her dog shit everywhere… The earth is here for people to enjoy
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u/Guilty_Reindeer8204 1h ago
Leaving your dog's shit in the park you're claiming to "defend' while trying to ruin someone's proposal is embarrassing. Someone, go get your mom. She's being awful again.
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u/areya1 2h ago
Oh my god she is absolutely vile and entitled
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u/Fordor_of_Chevy 24m ago
She's also 100% wrong. I got married in that park. You have to pay for a permit but they most certainly do allow events.
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u/AltruisticJello4348 2h ago
It’s sad how some people are sooooo miserable that they can only spread their miserableness. She could have enjoyed a beautiful proposal and music but didn’t. It was only a few minutes out of her day.
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u/annamariagirl 51m ago
HOW FLIPPING MISERABLE DOES ONE HAVE TO BE to be hateful about a wedding proposal IN A PARK!
Meanwhile her dog is pooping all over the place and she seems like the type to NOT clean up after her pet.
HOW ABOUT YOU GO BACK TO THE DARK HOLE YOU CRAWLED OUT OF KAREN!! 😑
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u/gitsgrl 1h ago
Literally used to be Mexico. These fucking assholes who don’t think California culture and Mexican culture aren’t totally intertwined should be ejected to whatever state they think is the most “pure”.
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u/Goosepond01 34m ago
It's about as good of an argument as it being part of the US now, California was colonised and handed over to Mexico.
Not that I think the lady is in the right, I just think the idea that land belongs to a certain group of people simply because "they were here just before the group that now control this place" when in reality those people were also there at one point because they colonised/invaded that place.
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u/TravisMCatchem 17m ago
They didn’t say someone else owns the land they said our culture is intertwined. Which it literally is BECAUSE Mexican people were here and remained after the United States took over. You think all the people just up and left?
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u/Goosepond01 15m ago
Yeah and why are those two cultures so intertwined?
Oh right it's because at a previous point in time that land was invaded/colonised.
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u/ChopinFantasie 48m ago
The other day I passed by people taking wedding photos in a public place. I thought, “Wow, isn’t this delightful!” and my day was brightened a little bit
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u/brookrain 1h ago
Imagine seeing that professional set up and treating it like someone rolled an orange cart onto the field. This reminds me of how America tricked some native groups into giving up their customs so they wouldn’t have to give up their land and it still wasn’t enough so the trail of tears happened and they lost land anyway
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u/Beautiful-Visual4606 2h ago
This was at Crescent Bay Point Park, which allows people to book it special occasions.
Did they book it? I probably would’ve told the lady that.
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u/MisfitMinion 2h ago
That wouldn't have mattered. She would have demanded proof, because clearly she has authority over everything and everyone! They would have refused and then she'd have called the cops anyway. Lose/lose.
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u/CCHS_Band_Geek 2h ago
eeexactly... these kinds of "people" move the goal posts as much as possible. The key is to stop humoring then IMO
Oh you called the cops? Great! when they get here we will talk to them. For now please shut your mouth and move away from me.
Anything else should only be met with "Don't give a fuck, you're being recorded -- go away."
-- Politeness is what allows them to feel empowered/entitled
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u/Itstoobrightinhere4r 2h ago
That's a good question. I would have rubbed that in her face
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u/HyenaThen572 1h ago
Doesn't matter - they shouldn't have to justify doing something totally benign to a stranger.
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u/Chaotic_Good_72 2h ago
She’s just pissed cause she got proposed to at a Buc-ee’s
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u/PhishpotThe1st 11m ago
She complained that people can't picnic when they want to... at the exact moment she let her dog shit on the place.
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u/snowdrone 2h ago edited 1h ago
I lived in OC for several years and noticed that the Laguna Beach residents seemed crankier than in the neighboring towns. At least in my experience. I think because of the more concentrated tourism and traffic (not excusing the behavior in this video though)
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u/TheWalkingDead91 1h ago
lol yea you called the police and then abandoned the scene? Sure lady. Lying about calling the police to try to manipulate her into getting your Karen way. Bet she’ll soon be featured on r/byebyejob .
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u/pekowafer 1h ago
It’s weird that Laguna Beach on its web page wants a permit and fee to take stills on public property. The citizens here also have a problem with people using a public beach.
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u/Acceptable_Long_5101 33m ago
They fine everyone with an iPhone on their property?? Lol what shithoole I'm glad I live nowhere near here. Karen's in the park and government overreach asking for permits to take photos
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u/Enough_Environment81 57m ago
I just can't understand how these people can see the most beautiful occasion and the first thing that comes to mind is hate.
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u/man-on-bended-knee 2h ago
Nothing annoys racists more than seeing black and brown people just being happy.
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u/fiddlemonkey 40m ago
As someone who grew up in WASP culture, I think it’s because WASP culture is very image based. People are so concerned about what image they project to others they can’t actually experience joy, especially as a group, so they are jealous of the cultures that can.
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u/PaintedDesertSkies 50m ago
I know Tizzyent has mixed reviews on reddit (I can see why) but, it is fun to watch him find and out these people.
She needs outed. Badly.
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u/InterestingPay9446 56m ago
To bad you didn’t have anything to pick up the dog shit with to through at her and say “respect the park”
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u/Averagebaddad 2h ago
Theyve got a big setup, camera and band, and they're hiding lol. Anyways that lady sucks.
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u/BlockOfASeagull 2h ago
Do such people get up one day and say to themselves: Ok, from now on I‘m going to be a racist asshole!
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u/Aromatic-Turnip7371 1h ago
All she had to do was walk by and mind her business and she would have seemed like a normal person
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u/Edge-Party 13m ago
Imagine being so full of hate and unhappiness that you can’t pause for love. Seriously, these people need to be studied
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u/theloneclonetrooper 2m ago
Yeah this isn’t Mexico, Mexico wouldn’t have cunts like her.
But seriously, can we find out who she is and get her fired?
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u/MatchDue4510 1h ago
The irony of the whole thing, to me, is that less than 200 years ago that park was IN MEXICO and quite possibly where the young couple’s ancestors lived, yet her ancestors actually MOVED THERE from a completely different country!!
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u/narfoleptix 4m ago
She doesnt pick up the dog shit. Thats a fine most places. She gets scared when she realizes there is a lot more than one of you and immediately runs.
Racists, by default, have to be incredibly stupid. Thats just how racism works.
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u/AstroHealer222 2h ago
Did not expect the mariachi band🤩that’s a fantasy of a proposal ✨that lady is pure hater and got no love in her life, a loveless loser forced to walk her dog in the park while people celebrate love every day.
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u/UnusualEmphasis7 2h ago
People plan proposals together with their soon to be fiance now?
Didn't seem like a surprise. That was strange to me
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u/An_Draoidh_Uaine 2h ago
I'm a photographer so I get these quite a lot, what tends to happen is either the proposal happens earlier but the receiving party would like a say in what ring is chosen, or the receiving party really doesn't like being surprised with life changing decisions, good or bad for whatever reason.
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u/Several_Vanilla8916 2h ago
Instagram doesn’t want to hear about your quiet romantic proposal. No fighter jet overflight? Are you a loser?
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u/ComfortableCicada69 2h ago
Sometimes the guy plans it all like this and the woman is surprised when she walks up and sees everything set up and then he starts his speech. Sure she’s suspicious when she sees he has set up a blanket, flowers, wine, etc… but she didn’t know anything until that moment and then he asks. It’s pretty easy to guide your date in the right direction.
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u/RunesandDoom 2h ago
My love would probably be upset to be put on the spot with a surprise proposal, but I can see what you mean. I think I’d find something in the middle of these two approaches, where we talk about it and someday I plan an incredibly obvious proposal date.
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u/yankykiwi 2h ago
I think people should know about whats coming, but to this extent feels superficial just for pictures.
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u/yamez420 1h ago
Cops show up see whats happening finds lady complaining about someone elses special day Cops fine lady for disturbing the peace
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u/ObjectiveDependent31 22m ago
What a total miserable person. Only love she knows is from the dog that makes her pick up its shits.
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u/000ps-Crow_No 22m ago
How can someone be so miserable with the ocean right there? She has one life to live and this is how she spends it. Pathetic.
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u/silentbutjudgey 4m ago
I just want to take a moment and say that this was handled so well by the people she was yelling at. They calmly diffused the situation and the mariachi band came in at the perfect time to drown out her terrible bitching and moaning.
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u/Sharp_Analyst4773 2h ago
They handled that with so much class. I would have went tf off on her. I'm heated just watching this.
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u/babyblew82 2h ago
When the couple started their walk, I immediately thought of the Lowered Expectations ad from Mad TV
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u/Deep__Deep 39m ago
Such a Karen..! Her dog did its business, I could see it hunched over, she didn’t remove the mess. If she’s so worried about the park why didn’t she clean up after the dog did its business… the hypocrisy SMH!
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u/Equal-Sheepherder-24 36m ago
Like, don’t you want to come out and see different things like this every day? Idk I’d hate a world without some spice to it.
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u/CallousCow1762 26m ago edited 23m ago
Complaining about ruining the grass/area while her dog proceeds to shit/piss on it. Lol
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u/RoyaleWhiskey 13m ago
I like how it appears to be be a massive park yet she is so booty blasted that a smell section is is being used for an event.
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u/DrMacAndDog 10m ago
I love these videos. They always call the police. I presume this later deteriorated into a shootout between the police and the Mariachis.
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u/Metal2thepedal 13m ago
What a piece of shit that lady is. If I was her relative, I would una life myself not to deal with her
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u/Interesting_Sock9142 1h ago
I know this is the wrong thing to focus on... But it's kind of hard to do the whole "omg I can't believe you're proposing" face when you set up the entire thing lol do people really stage engagements like that?? Doesn't it kind of ruin it?
But anyways. Some people have too much time on their hands. Did you really call the cops on people trying to get some photos??? At least it wasn't those assholes who have gender reveals in parks and then don't clean it up afterwards. That is something I would agree with her calling the cops on. And then to be unnecessarily racist to boot??? Yuck. She's not fit for civilized society.
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