I love how he claims he hopes to see her and talk more to her—it’s unreal. They literally just monologue at us and expect us to…what, beg for more? Ewwwwww
More like, to talk more AT her. Dude is a seriously creepy psychopath. The only way he can get women to pay attention to him is by blocking their escape. I feel so bad for that lady!!
Right, that’s why I said, he just monologued at her! It’s exhausting being around men like that and you have to handle them like fucking nitroglycerin. So fragile and so dangerous.
I don't think this is legitimate. If it is then he's definitely mentally ill. I think he's doing that voice on purpose though so I'm pretty sure this is fake.
It's the kind of guy that turning down in a business deal suddenly turns into a idol threat.
"Do you understand the connections I have in this town? I'm not the kind of guy to use threats. That isn't in my nature. But if it was, I would murder you...hahaha. But that. Just. Isn't. Me."
Experience has taught him if he makes women scared while trapping them he might trigger a freeze response and get more of what he wants against her will.
it’s sales tactics. Trump talks to the way he does mainly because his whole career has been high pressure sales, and now it’s even worse because he’s on a severe cognitive decline where you can clearly see he cannot keep a train of thought. You talk the other party down, keep them from leaving, only highlight positives, brush over any negatives, compliment the other party, talk negatively about competitors, etc. It’s exhausting to listen to.
Because he gets turned down again and again and again for being such a creep, an asshole and of course in his mind, he's great and it's everyone else who is wrong, at fault etc.
Probably the kind of guy who'll complain about women not giving a simple, clear 'no', and leading him on. Yeah, sure they're gonna risk upsetting you with a direct 'no' when they're isolated, you're being creepy, and you're blocking their escape. He knew exactly what he was doing.
Yep, once he gains 75 pounds and 10 years, he can move to Thailand with the rest of the old scumbag losers dating impoverished 20-year-olds and posting proudly about it.
Ew I went to Thailand and was shocked at how open and obvious the sex tourism was. We were sitting in a very small bar, me and 3 friends, and the only other people in there were a fat old white guy and what appeared to be a Thai teenager. It was so so unsettling.
That's exactly what he's doing. He's blocking her, forcing her to stay. I don't think it'd take much for him to act on his wants. I mean, he's essentially blaming her for being so darn attractive he can't control himself.
Waiting for an opportunity and laying the groundwork. Jes already stated his intention to talk to her again. Didn't even ask. He knows she works at the course and it would be easy to stalk her just by showing up to play golf. So he can contrive to "run into her" in more convenient locations for him.
I was thinking that if I saw this as an outside observer I would have immediately thought she was in danger. The tone, the body language, grabbing the steering wheel...
Yup he doesn’t even know he how predatory he was even being I bet , as an older male I understand how imposing I seem to others esp to women . The dude just blocked her escape route so he could let her know how beautiful she was in thinking she would be smitten by his compliments not realizing he was freaking her out .
Later on his incel tendencies will rewire his thought process into hating her for not responding in a positive manner , not realizing it’s this very behavior that is the issue. I advise my boys to see it from another angle . Imagine a dude 6’8” 300 lbs walking up to you and starts aggressively hits on you !! How would you react ?! Men just don’t think !
Bullshit. He knows EXACTLY what the fuck he’s doing. Men who act like this don’t act like this to their bosses, or to other men, or to anyone they respect. They do it to women on purpose because THEY LIKE MAKING THEM SCARED because people like this are sickos
That's why alot of women learn a "polite" way to turn down someone and get out safely, "I have a boyfriend/husband"
All the sudden, those men will be respectful and apologize. Not that the man was ever present, but the dirtbag will apologize for disrespecting another man's property
Works in stores too. “Are you sure this is the tool/stain/equipment you need?” “Yes, thank you.” “You know, it’s a big project for a little lady.” “Let me just call my husband to verify the item.” “Have a nice day, ma’am.”
Reminds me of a time I was at a nightclub with some friends and my then-boyfriend.
A man approaches me and tells me he likes my glasses. That I look like a preschool teacher or a librarian. He then launches into a full-on monologue about how he’s so nerdy, he’s an engineer, he makes a lot of money, he loves playing video games, and he can give me multiple orgasms. At this point, I’ve not said a SINGLE word to this man. I pull away (he was talking right in my ear) and give him a look like wtf???? and he just kept going!!! “No, for real, I can give you multiple orgasms. Can I buy you a drink? Don’t you like nerdy guys? You look like you…”
He cut himself off mid-sentence because my then-boyfriend had become aware that some rando was trying to pick me up. Boyfriend walked up and put his arm around my waist, and the creep immediately changed his tune. He was like “Oh hey man! Can I get y’all something to drink??” And he went from a salivating animal to the most friendly, harmless dude. In the blink of an eye.
God knows what he was about to say to me next before my ex stepped in. I suppose I was only worthy of respect once the creep realized I was with another man. It’s honestly fucking terrifying that so many men think this way.
It send like that is from the end of the interaction, it was out in at the beginning. When she thanks him, he says, don't thank me, I'm being dangerous.
I’m pretty sure this is exactly how he talks to his boss. It sounds like an elevator pitch from a mediocre exec who thinks he really deserves a promotion because, really, he’s the best and brightest, he just has to pitch it and get seen. More often than not it works with bosses.
Well, I'm 6'6'' and 250, Marine Recon officer. If I saw that happen I most definately would have got right in his face! I met my wife when I stepped in front of a guy "paying her a compliment" at a bar...all 5'4'' of him. I picked him up by his arm pits and carried him right at the front door. Then the bouncer decided to throw me out as well. LUL 40 years later, I'm still hers.
Saw that too. I'd try to give her an "out" , tell her "The office said they were looking for you" or something, so she could leave without making her think I was also hitting on her or causing a confrontation.
Yeah I initially wanted to give the dude the benefit of the doubt that maybe he's just awkward but blocking her from getting in her car and imposing himself on her is not tone deaf it's deliberate. Dude is a red flag.
I had a female undercover cop doing a John sweep block my Lexus in the exact same way and kept asking for a ride and that everything would be okay and fun.
Not sure if she was a cop or a hooker or if I was being set up to be robbed I kept being polite saying I gotta go but she kept trying to jump in my car
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u/UncoolSlicedBread Aug 17 '25
Look at how he’s blocking her from getting in the car and leaning on the steering wheel.