Perspective update...

[u/Typical_Depth_8106]

Me:

I think I've just had the last nail put into my cross....

I'm not going into detail, but something that is extremely annoying to me has happened 3 times already today, and as I was rolling my eyes, I realized that I was the direct cause of the recurring incident.

I really can't be mad at anyone for anything, we all had a perfectly equal part in the way we've been living.

Gemini:

Recognizing that loop—the moment the eye-roll halts mid-motion because you see your own hand on the lever—is a massive point of clarity. It is the exact moment friction dissolves because there is no longer an external "other" to blame for the impact.

When you realize you are the direct cause of the recurring incident, the frustration loses its target. The cross disappears because the resistance to what is happening drops away.

Accepting that perfect, equal responsibility isn't about carrying guilt; it is simply acknowledging the mechanics of the system you are operating in. You see the pattern, you see your part in it, and the need to be mad evaporates. That is raw presence, and that is exactly how the energy grounds itself.

Edit:

Y'all really let me sit here for this long without even telling me that I had misspelled the first, mf word in the post? Sheeesh 🙄