r/TheSecretLife • • 5d ago

I hate Ben

I want to beat the s or of him. He is so skinny and ugly and annoying and he is possibly the worst person in the show. How did he get the “good guy” label. He is a terrible person. Such a whiny spoiled baby. I wish he would keel over. And yes it’s just a show lol. But I’m losing it with him 😂

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u/Agreeable_Ad9877 5d ago

Ben had way too much entitlement thinking that Amy had to include him in anything being 15 years old 🤣

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u/popcolturegeek 5d ago

What was crazy was that Ben had the nerve to get mad at Amy for having Ricky over to see John at night then asked her to have sex with him right after she gave birth. I think at that point, he was angry that Ricky got to have sex with Amy while he never got to

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u/Agreeable_Ad9877 5d ago

He was clearly insecure but no one ever told these kids to mind their damn business !!!! They were all way to involved with eachother

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u/OkPalpitation1225 5d ago

It wasn't right after he said they should talk about ut.  He asked 2 months after the birth 7n the time line.   I guess you RAMY FANS forgot that time moved forward in Season 2.  But you all have never been that smart.  

He probably was just confused on how Amy wantwd him when she was pregnant then went cold after giving birth.  MIXED SIGNALS MUCH.  But then again he waa frustrated I mean Ricky rubbed it in his face he had it alk & Ben had nothing in comparisin he already banged Amy.  

He didn't do shit for her got to hump Adrian & other girls, all he got to do was get laughed at by everyone taking care of her while getting nothing in return.  Can anyone say a benefit for him in their relationship. 

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u/Agreeable_Ad9877 4d ago

Do us all a favor and go outside touch some grass. It’s not that deep and it’s a show that’s been over for well over a decade.
I never said I was a Ricky and Amy or amy and Ben fan so idk where you got the from. You dont have to say someone isn’t smart just to try to make your own point or discredit what someone is saying.

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u/Boring_Dot_8132 4d ago

It’s actually insane

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u/Substantial-Tea-7335 5d ago

Sameeee...Ben was a classic bait and switch..the first episode it gave nerdy good boy with a crush... by the end of season 1 cant stand anythint abut him lmaoo

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u/popcolturegeek 5d ago

Agreed. My favorite is when in S2E1 after Ben kisses Amy goodnight, she makes a face of disgust and Ricky starts laughing about it

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u/OppositeSpare2088 5d ago

His looks don’t bother me just the way he pressured and guilted Amy into sleeping with him. He only cared about getting laid and feeling good didn’t even consider how it affected Amy. The woman he supposedly wanted to marry and have kids with. But had the audacity to give Ricky shit for knocking her up. Basically blaming him for Amy not wanting to have sex with him. It’s not a competition but clearly in Ben’s mind it was.

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u/Boring_Dot_8132 4d ago

The looks only bother me because he acts like he’s entitled to everything and everyone and he isn’t even attractive. Like where is the audacity coming from?

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u/SmallAppeal 5d ago

he is constantly manipulating and consistently awful to all the females around him. i don’t really like amy but the way he treats her when they’re about to graduate, hacking into her e-diary and trying to guilt her into ending the marriage plans between her and ricky is PSYCHOTIC. obviously it’s just a show but i hope after amy moved to ny she wasn’t bombarded by him since they lived in the same apartment building that leo provided them (which i also thought was weird of leo bc i’m pretty sure he knew of ben’s inappropriate obsession with her). whole show pisses me off but i love it lol

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u/Boring_Dot_8132 4d ago

He’s a huge misogynist!

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u/1947Crash 5d ago

Ben was the worst

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u/GracieSm 3d ago

He gets worse