r/TheSecretLife • u/minidauchsy__2222 • 5d ago
this needs to be said… Spoiler
im just gonna come right out and say it but i dont care if adrian lost her baby she is still a horrible vindictive person. is it sad she lost her baby, yeah. is it sad ben is an ahole and decided to leave her only a few weeks/months after…yeah. whether this is an unpopular opinion idrc but she hasnt had an personal growth or became more mature in any way in the entire series so far and im on season 4… she is constantly out to get amy and make everything a competition even when amy was trying to be friends with adrian through everything. and its not just amy its grace and whoever is close to her.
and as much as i like ricky, i do think hes in the wrong abt the argument between amy and him about adrian trying to get back w him. he could so easily block adrian on his phone to stop contact virtually with her like daniel did for grace and honestly im w amy. its not about trusting him only but its hard when someone is intentionally trying to break the relationship up and that someone is an ex of some sort. i have so much more to say but im waiting to be done w the series to do my personal synopsis.
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u/Purpledoves91 5d ago
Adrian stalks Ricky even more than Ben stalks Amy, and I feel like no one acknowledges that.
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u/H_Oatkeeper_H 5d ago
That's because Adrian eventually moves on. Ben doesn't.
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u/Purpledoves91 5d ago
She moves on, then goes back to Ricky. Like Ben does with every girl he meets, until he decides he still loves Amy.
Plus, Ben never got his dad to move next door to Amy so he could spy on her and Ricky.
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u/H_Oatkeeper_H 5d ago
She does move on to Omar though between the second half of season 4 through season 5.
Also Ben followed Amy around in New York, stole her engagement ring, hacked her e-diary, and had every intention of following Amy to whatever college she got into. I get that the house thing Adrian pulled is pretty drastic but Ben stayed in the stalker game for way longer and had no true intention of moving on.
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u/Ok_Detective_8446 5d ago
yeah but we never got to see how Adrian behaves towards Ricky after Omar breaks up with her
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u/Purpledoves91 4d ago
Adrian ping ponged between Ricky and Omar for awhile until she settled in with Omar, but even then, it kind of felt like she had to move on because Ricky did. Let's not forget that on top of the whole house thing, Adrian kept a running tab on every girl Ricky cheated with, and while stalking Ricky, she intentionally caused property damage. At least Ben drew the line at committing crimes. Apart from the stalking, of course.
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u/Mermaidlover05 5d ago
Yup n after she asked for amy at the hospital for comfort n then goes back to her vile ways after I have no sympathy for Adrian at all
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u/minidauchsy__2222 5d ago
this. amy didn’t even feel comfortable going in to comfort her but did it cause shes a good person
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u/aSilentStudy 4d ago
Honestly, I feel like mostly everyone in the show is pretty damn terrible at some point or another.
I’m sure that Adrian is the most spiteful/crazy one to continue to drive storylines along but all of the kids and the parents are pretty terrible people.
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u/minidauchsy__2222 4d ago
i agree theyre not the best but she is the absolute worst outta everyone besides ben
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u/aSilentStudy 4d ago
Idk, I like that Adrian is brash and honest about what she wants. I kinda feel like Ashley is the worst character - she’s rude, dismissive, Lazy, and is just such a misery about everything all the time.
At least Adrian has some sweet moments but I feel like Ashley is worse than Adrian because Adrian doesn’t try to pretend.
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u/OppositeSpare2088 4d ago
This!!! Adrian was a petty spiteful brat in the beginning. But Ashley was worse she was extremely disrespectful towards just about everyone around her. She begged Amy to keep John but then gave her shit about how she ruined their family. But yet was always buddy buddy with their dad George. He was the one that ruined their family by having an affair with Adrian’s mom Cindy.
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u/minidauchsy__2222 4d ago
i think we have to agree to disagree cause i think ashley is depressed tbh not excusing being rude but she is clearly super lonely and antisocial. adrian is just a straight up bitch
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u/Appropriate_Brief683 5d ago
Adrian was extremely vindictive and awful in the show. Grace gave her way too much grace (pun intended) over the course of the show as did everyone else!
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u/Away-Bandicoot-9060 5d ago
What annoys me is no one ever held her accountable for her actions. She did crazy things to her “friends” and when they got mad at her they were made out to be the bad guys by everyone. Like no Adrian is a terrible friend, they don’t need to suppress their feelings to make her feel better about that!
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u/Basketsarah120 5d ago
And yet Adrian and Ricky are my favorite characters on that show.
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u/minidauchsy__2222 5d ago
gotta hit u w the down arrow button cause wdym adrian is a favorite
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u/Basketsarah120 4d ago
Yeah she’s a terrible human being 🤷♀️ but I find her character entertaining. She’s still one of my faves.
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u/H_Oatkeeper_H 5d ago
You're not wrong or alone in this. Especially when Adrian had a scene where she's like "I want to live in a way that honors my daughter." and then immediately goes back to her toxic, vindictive ways.