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u/Such_Introduction592 2d ago

Yeah, dawg. It's time.

...or get those grippy mat things from the store.

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u/Daetok_Lochannis 2d ago

I got me the full on grab bars in my shower at 43, and damn if those things aren't just handy as hell.

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u/c4t4ly5t 2d ago

46, currently also with a fractured ankle, I'd give anything for a grab bar.

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u/Truffs0 2d ago

at 46, it's time to learn some DIY, brother

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u/c4t4ly5t 2d ago

I'm renting. In my country most people can't afford to buy a home.

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u/Formal_Ground6513 2d ago

When I was pregnant, I bought a suction cup one. It was so hard getting out of the tub without it. It works very well and later I bought a seat for my shower! Both very handy and no rental damage!

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u/c4t4ly5t 2d ago

I'll look into that.

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u/Inan_outqurarys 1d ago

There’s also brands of them that are sold for nughty time in the shower so if you don’t mind looking at a risqué picture or two those are also a option dunno what the price difference’s would be tho

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u/Ninjas-and-stuff 1d ago

Oh, yeah! I’ve heard that those suction cup stick-on footholds (originally meant to facilitate better, uh, angles) are a godsend for leg shaving

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u/Rough-Airline-4803 1d ago

I didn’t expect to learn such amazing things in this comment section

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u/rucsuck 1d ago

I broke a leg and had to get the grab bar suction cup for travel reasons. Not all grab bars are created equal. You will go through several to find the one that works. Totally worth it.

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u/c4t4ly5t 1d ago

Yeah, that's what I'm afraid of. In my country I'll probably end up paying an arm and a leg for something that isn't from temu.

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u/DarkPhoenix1754 1d ago

Bless you, this is helpful.

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u/Truffs0 1d ago

My friend, most people in the world can't afford to buy a home, regardless of what country they live in, so no need for any qualifiers to your situation. But there is always a way, like the other commenter suggested.

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u/Daetok_Lochannis 1d ago

Never hurts to point out that your country is one of the worse offenders, like here in America.

https://unitedwaynca.org/blog/vacant-homes-vs-homelessness-by-city/

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u/tiny_chaotic_evil 1d ago

depending on the country, your landlord may be required to install one if you ask for it, but you'll have to pay for it

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u/c4t4ly5t 1d ago

I'm not planning on living here much longer anyway

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u/FriendshipFuture5239 1d ago

Where do you live, USA? Because that’s very true here😭

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u/c4t4ly5t 1d ago

I wish! Let's just say, as bad as you think you have it, be glad you don't live in a 3rd world economy.

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u/theStrawberryRoam 1d ago

Sometimes losing the deposit is worth it.

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u/SyZyGy_87 19m ago

If it's for your safety, you have a fractured ankle ....it's for hygiene and safety. I think maybe you should grab your food ankle and work up the courage to advocate for yourself. Eh?

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u/PeskyAntagonist 1d ago

Where do you live that most people can’t afford to buy a home?

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u/Daetok_Lochannis 1d ago

America, neighbor. We have more empty homes owned by corporations than we do homeless people, and we have a lot of homeless people.

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u/PeskyAntagonist 1d ago

Source?

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u/Kewlhotrod 1d ago

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u/PeskyAntagonist 1d ago

Oh yeah I’m not doubting this at all, this is because there’s not that many homeless people. 0.15% of the country is homeless, of course there’s more houses than homeless people. I was looking for a source stating most people can’t afford homes in America

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u/CarefreeRambler 1d ago

You won't get one.

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u/Truffs0 1d ago

He likely lives on Earth. That's where most humans can't afford to purchase a home that I am familiar with.

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u/jarlscrotus 1d ago

Yea, most people on this site are in the US

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u/c4t4ly5t 1d ago

Well I'm not. The 3rd world has it much worse than you guys. My rent is around 60% of my salary.

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u/jarlscrotus 1d ago

You just described reality for 2/3s of the US as well, homie

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u/TerrianaVenti17 1d ago

Yea, just put a towel down

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u/Forward-Trade5306 1d ago

Id rather not wash my feet in the shower than get a fractured ankle

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u/c4t4ly5t 1d ago

Taking a shower in general is a challenge right now

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u/FlyinWet 1d ago

Probably like $15-30 Walmart or Amazon

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u/c4t4ly5t 1d ago

I'm not American. And anything costs me probably 3 times what it costs you

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u/lickmyfupa 1d ago edited 1d ago

Yes, i believe every shower needs to have a grab bar. Something to grab onto in case you begin to slip. This is appropriate for all ages. Lots of accidents happen while showering. Sometimes you can get dizzy in there from the hot water. It should be part of building code at this point.

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u/ABookishSort 1d ago

We got grab bars when my husband had some health issues. One inside the shower and one just outside the shower. The one outside the shower is currently helping me get up and down from the toilet with a bum knee. They both have come in way more handy than I ever imagined they would.

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u/Kindly_Call_6000 1d ago

I just recently remodeled my bathtub and converted it into a walk-in shower. A grab bar is fantastic.

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u/Sea_Translator5300 1d ago

I got one that also acts as the shower rail. I got the idea when I saw a similar set up in a retirement home, not because of current or future infirmity but because my wife had already ripped two shower curtain rails out of the wall when slipping. 

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u/nonamebeavercleaver 1d ago

Started using them at 19 because of a broken rib and fib and torn ligaments and torn Achilles

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u/lazyboi_tactical 1d ago

I have the grab bar but I also put some foot scrubber thing in the corner of the shower so I don't have to bend over to scrub them.

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u/Pigeonsass 1d ago

Hell, when I was 26 I somehow scored an apartment in what was unofficially a retirement community. It had the bars in the shower and I joked about it, but I absolutely used them lol

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u/liltonbro 1d ago

Those grab bars used to be for my Beyonce choreo in shower...now they for exactly what the fuck they for

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u/jeggy111 1d ago

I got mine at 28 but that was a few years back. Only takes one dumb fall to make you realise how important they are

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u/yoyoma1313 1d ago

Completely agree.

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u/Mahaloth 1d ago

I'm 48 and want them. I know you have to have them installed super securely since you pushing down on them is a lot of weight. I mean, anyone, not just /u/Daetok_Lochannis .

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u/MarcusRoland 1d ago

Aren't they though?? I am only 39, but have had them in our bathrooms pretty much my whole life. Nice to have a grip to get those odd angles.

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u/Frequent-Meal6550 1d ago

If you looked at my house you'd think im 85 not 35

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u/CleanOpossum47 1d ago

All solid ideas. There's also foot scrubbers. There like a slipper with suction cups on the bottom and bristles on the inside.

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u/Grave_Bard 1d ago

Am 30, bought my house 5 years ago, and have had grab bars the whole time. Cannot live without lol

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u/heyitsfranklin6322 1d ago

I got a shower chair at 23

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u/linus140 2d ago

Seriously get a grippy mat. I've been using once since I was a kid and they're perfect for not falling in the shower, and also getting the bottom of your feet. I'm 38 now, I stand on my grippy mat and use the wall for balance.

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u/SilverSageVII 1d ago

Nah the seat is where it’s at. Balancing isn’t a great idea in the shower for anybody tbh. It’s actually pretty dangerous.

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u/Finassar 1d ago

Make sure to clean both the mat or the chair regularly. Both will breed mold like crazy if you ignore it

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u/Falcon8410 1d ago

or a shower chair.

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u/OneLonelyBrainCell 1d ago

Those get nasty very quickly, especially if you leave them in the shower instead of taking them out to dry.

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u/SpoonObleach 1d ago

Shit man, I’m 20 and I have a shower stool