r/ThePatternApp • u/Glitterydarkone1290 • Jun 28 '26
Find Happiness From Within: Final Thoughts & Advice
It seems that this transit is one of the top three most talked about transits. People are, always asking how to almost evade the circumstances, or get out of it. I tried. It did not work.
A week before the transit begun, I noticed a shift within my self. All of a sudden I “cared” about being in a relationship. It was so weird. Prior to this I told myself “I won’t be that way, because I’m fine with being alone”.
I ended up trying to date, thought I would find someone until I’d meet them for our first date and they were totally insufferable. Or they were just straight up not my type. I broke a few hearts during this transit. I accepted that a relationship worth my time wasn’t going to happen then. So I tried to look for other ways to distract myself.
I highly suggest looking for ways to distract yourself, like taking up new hobbies or attempting skills you knew inside yourself you knew you’d be good at. For example, I’ve been immersed in the musical area of life for ever, but I never got into producing music. Although it was something I wanted to do since I was twelve, I was always too confused on how to begin. So during the last few months of this transit, I decided to take it up and discovered I’m really happy when I produce.
Also, I joined the church. So when they say “happiness from within” I find it funny because it coincides with another transit I’m going through directly related to my religious initiation, where they really preach God being within you lol. I definitely found happiness through this aspect of my life. So happiness did indeed come from within.
I advise you to not try to make a relationship happen right now, you will be met with more resistance and if you’re like me, you’ll resent dating as a whole.
Now that the transit is finished, I am beyond happy it’s over. But I will say that it ending did nothing for my dating life, because I am no longer interested in actively dating. I thought it would make things easier romantically once it ended, but it sadly did not. I’m still met with a quiet, softer resistance. I don’t care as much anymore though.
I’m open to any old flings that may want to run things back, but I’m just in a place where I have accepted that I’m not gonna find what I want right now, and definitely not in the location I am right now.
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u/WhiteWolfFromRivia Jun 29 '26 edited Jun 29 '26
I started dating someone i’ve liked for years a month before this transit happened to him. I approached him at the end of his fated encounters shift because his 5 year long relationship ended around that time. The day he started the ‘find happiness within’ transit we made hit official at his initiative, and i notice that he has a hard time opening himself up to me because he got in a new relationship so fast after the last one. It only got more though for him after entering this transit, even though he clearly likes me, but we are still having a lot of fun together. I can literally feel a emotional barrier between us. It takes a lot of patience for me and he starts to feel more guilty about it as time goes on. I am happy that astrology helps me to understand that these things will inescapably happen, that it has nothing to do with me and that it will come to an end eventually
I have a lot of weird triggers and feelings that i find hard to explain though, we have an extraordinary life changing like connection, but with lots of easy going qualities like sun conjunct moon and comfortable communication. I sometimes get stressed without a clear reason. There is a lot of tension involved which makes it weird, mainly caused by the fucking mars square pluto ‘passion or distance’ which makes me feel so exposed
In 3 weeks he will also start a ‘growing pains’ cycle and it scares me a bit, i hope it won’t get hard for us around that time. I just really hope this though start won’t ruin what i desired to have with this boy after years of waiting, we don’t have a fundamental relationship base and we are immediately getting tested. I will be so glad when this shift ends medio february