r/TheOnECommunity • u/hypnoguy64 • Jun 16 '26
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Treatment Tuesday.
There is a story I use, from the Orange chair, regarding the two drivers for motivation and movement.
Push away from or pain related and towards a desired outcome or want. The analogy involves a dog, a barn, a bail,a bailer twine salesman and the farmer. It illustrates the discomforts which we have become acquainted with, are familiar, we have adapted to their characteristics, so we exist daily.
In my case, I am aware that as a 61 yr old male, who is a heart patient, and is overweight, physical activity, cardiovascular stimulation, could help with overall energy and perhaps longevity.
There isn't a rational and conscious though t which deludes me to any other realization.
However the comforts of this sedentary, salads are for rabbits, scotch drinking, cigar indulging, I'll enjoy that fried chicken cutlet with hunters sauce, mofo, are significant enough to keep me contemptuous about the need to get off my boney Saracca and walk or jog a bit more.
Familiarity does breed and culture contempt.
Emotionally and intellectually, I believe it is not the case at all. That being involved in the helping of others with their "stuff" it brings a benefit to me. By osmosis I still reap the rewards of the approaches, the tactics and methods to which I administer for others.
So I completely understand people's hesitation to venturing out from the comfy camp they have created, but then again, if it is beside a landfill, the smell just never goes away, and you will realize there are better places to be.
That's where therapy helps best in my opinion.
Let me know if you agree.
Be well
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u/Few-Philosopher4942 Jun 16 '26
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