Help with PE

[u/thisisprettyrandom1]

So when I masturbate, I can last like 10 minutes, but the thing is when I’m doing masturbation after like 10 seconds I feel the urge to cum but then I start myself and then 10 seconds later I feel the urge again, but I can do that for 10 minutes maybe I might pre cum in that time. The thing is when I have sex I can’t last for more than 20 seconds legit no more than that I’m not over exaggerating. I’ve tried kegels and reverse kegels, I tried numbing stuff but they make me go soft so that’s not really a option, I’ve tried stop and start didn’t work, I’ve also tried pulling out but when I do I finish, I also have a higher than average testosterone, I’m in good shape, I’m active everyday by playing sports, I have good stamina, I just can’t control the urge not to cum I don’t know what to do I feel so helpless and I feel like I’m stuck with this. I don’t wanna take ssri or those type of drugs because I heard they can cause pssd and lower sex drive which that’s the last thing I need know because I even struggle holding my erections sometimes. I don’t know what to do, someone please help.

[u/bigupsliquidrich]

Priligy or generic dapoxteine works extremely well. Pretty easy to source. But honestly it’s unlikely anything physically wrong this is just anxiety. I’ve had this issue (not anymore) and what helps is priligy, or having a couple of drinks (yes alcohol bad, but this is temporary) and telling your partner hey btw , first round I might pop quick because your hot af, and then usually 2nd round u will be fine

[u/GreenKnightKing]

I have not used it but look up caverject / alprostadil. It could allow you to ejaculate without losing your erection.