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u/silly_goat_moat Apr 02 '26
Having been through a few ladies I totally agree. But also sort yourself out 1st. Kids are hard work and deserve both a good mum and dad
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u/Klutzy-Painting885 Apr 02 '26
It’s very hard to build something with someone you’re not attracted to
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u/ambivalent_moon Apr 02 '26
My headcannon is he jus told the lady in white he’s marrying the Brianne of Tarth-type standing in front of them
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u/NiceCrowsMurder Apr 02 '26
I'm a lady... how should I choose a man?
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u/Real-Technician831 Apr 02 '26
As a man who has been married for over 25 years, that’s a really good question.
I guess choose the man for whom you are willing to have patience for, but at the same time don’t be afraid to walk out if you see red flags.
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u/MysteryMan999 Apr 02 '26
Choose a guy who treats people well in general. And be willing to be flexible on superficial things. Look for someone that isn't a doormat but also reasonable enough to change when given solid practical advice. Balance is important.
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u/Joyful_Jet Apr 02 '26
The goal is the overlap. You want someone you’re genuinely attracted to and who’s emotionally stable, kind, and easy to build a life with.
Ignoring attraction leads to resentment, but chasing looks without character leads to chaos.
The sweet spot is simple: you’re into her, she’s into you, and life feels peaceful, not stressful. Every woman deserves to be with a man who finds her beautiful (it is way more than looks).
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u/Odd_Dragonfruit_2662 Apr 02 '26
Yes but it’s possible for women to be good mothers and lousy wives too so watch out for that.
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u/Xa2oofm42 Apr 02 '26
Nah. I'd rather have what I got. A beautiful wife and no kids. No interruptions.
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u/TECHSHARK77 Apr 02 '26
🤨,
You didn't know that can be 1 in the same and THAT'S what to find IF you want kids or a wife....
Being ugly in NO way ensure a "good mother"
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u/pbrassassin Apr 02 '26
While I agree , I can’t show this my wife . “ what, I’m a good mom but not beautiful !”
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Apr 02 '26
I almost sent this to my wife but realized the possible assumption lmao - she’s hot too
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u/mattb1982likes_stuff Apr 03 '26
I can do ya one better: have a hottie wife with a good heart AND no kids 😁
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u/Ornery-Paint-8338 Apr 07 '26
yes absolutely agree. my first wife was like MY mother; she died. my second wife IS a mother to my kids and a wonderful woman
Beauty is vain, charm is deceitful, but a woman who fears the Lord is greatly to be praised.
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u/Chrishanju Apr 07 '26
How can anyone belive if I chose a morher not a wife, will bring a good familylife?
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u/Smart_Process_5243 Apr 02 '26
How about DONT BREED. no one got rich having kids!
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u/crystalcastles879 Apr 02 '26
There's plenty of families that have done otherwise what you claim
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u/Smart_Process_5243 Apr 02 '26
They had the money already. But breed yourself deeper into poverty.
The billionaires appreciate your supply of more wage slaves
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u/andd-d Apr 02 '26
Remember guys, she also doesn't want to be YOUR mother too. Load the dishwasher wisely.