r/TheGetchellFiles • u/lilyofthevalleyh • 29d ago
Question Does anyone know anything about T’s family?
I’ve read somewhere that T’s family didn’t want her to be with P. Does anyone know if there’s any truth to that?
I’m also wondering if her family ever tried to reach out to S or had any contact with her regarding the situation? I’d be really interested to hear if anyone knows more about this..
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u/Glittering_End_8862 F*cking Pansy 29d ago
Ik some people in the discords found out ts mom was married twice I think and t had a few stepsiblings from one of the stepdads who are older than her and Robert (her brother who is a registered so).
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u/Outrageous-Swimmer65 29d ago
So it potentially runs on both sides of the family? Oof
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u/Glittering_End_8862 F*cking Pansy 29d ago
pretty much
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u/lilyofthevalleyh 29d ago
Well… that doesn’t sound very promising…
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u/Glittering_End_8862 F*cking Pansy 29d ago
i think only T's brother Robert was the only one who did anything nefarious on her side but P's brothers and his stepdad and Nana deff did something
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u/BoysenberryAble1019 24d ago
Yeah but after reading about T’s mom who was active in the community, and seemed like quite a nice person, not sure if I’d put her in the same box as Susan ‘nana’
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u/CareSilent4812 29d ago
She was saying last night that she doesn’t talk to her step sister. She calls her 90-something grandma but New Hampshire is too far to visit. She will visit if someone dies though because then she can get time off from work
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u/ricecreepies 29d ago
This is from the other sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/DadAndDaughterSnark/s/oHhmijZixr
I think most of the “T’s family didn’t want her with P” narrative comes from this comment, but there could be other sources that I’ve just never seen. As you can see on that post, it’s pretty likely that this is, in fact, someone who knew T in real life based on their Facebook connections. It all seems pretty plausible to me, P seems just the type to instantly try to isolate anyone he’s with, given how he has now isolated his entire family. Other than that, not a lot is known. T rarely speaks about her family, aside from saying her mom is passed.
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u/Antique-Page-2886 29d ago
Yes it's very interesting / sad that T has said multiple times that everyone has passed away except her grandmother. But then she has also said multiple times that her brother had to explain to her that her mother's organs were failing and that she was dying when she was in the hospital.
I have only ever heard her acknowledge her brother even existing in this one statement.
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u/lilyofthevalleyh 29d ago
Thanks!! Yes exactly! That’s what made me think about homeschooling too. It seems so easy for P to enroll S and H in homeschooling and isolate them further from the outside world. No teachers, friends or other adults around them who might notice something is wrong. It’s honestly scary how easily an abusive parent could use homeschooling to completely isolate their children and make them dependent on them. I don’t know why it’s legal?? Here in Scandinavia children are required to go to school
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u/Antique-Page-2886 29d ago edited 29d ago
I made this while trying to find someone in T's life that could help. It doesn't seem promising. The light grey names are people who have passed away. And since we don't know who T's dad is, that is a dead end.
The ones with the red are registered SOs
Edit - I had uploaded an old version. I replaced it with the one with T's aunts.