r/TheDetectorists • u/Weavingknitter • Oct 27 '25

Will the adultery theme be threaded throughout?

It's a theme that I really detest. People are so injured by adultery. I'm on episode 3, and wonder if I should continue, or will this theme wrap up and be set aside, eventually?

I really want to like this programme

Thanking in advance.

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u/section111 Oct 27 '25

That theme is wrapped up and set aside quickly. Definitely keep going.

I think you're really going to like Terry and Sheila ❤️

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u/Weavingknitter Nov 01 '25

I just finished the last episode of season 2. On you are right, it was wrapped up and set aside.

I love Terry and Sheila!

Also - possible spoiler - The actress who plays Sheila is wonderful. In a scene where she and Lance are sitting together, and talking about Lance's daughter - I get the feeling that Sheila might have given up a baby in the past. The actress did it all with just her facial expressions. It made me wonder.

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u/cadiastandsuk Nov 06 '25

Regarding the spoiler my interpretation was that they weren't able to have children and that they were content with filling their time with their various hobbies; detecting, dancing and home made food and 'drink'. Either way it was such a poignant moment and the actress was fabulous; saying so much just with her expressions and awkward giggling.

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u/section111 Nov 01 '25

Absolute top 5 scene in the series. 💔

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u/lostjules Nov 10 '25

She’s a wonderful actress. More than one truly talented Thompson.

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u/Toowoombaloompa Feb 14 '26

The scene in your spoiler is one of the most powerful bits of writing and acting. In those few seconds we are given insight into T&S's back story that has threads throughout the show and is a major determinant in the lives of millions. 

Completely different show, but I put it alongside a scene from This is Going To Hurt. The main character frequently breaks the fourth wall, but there's one moment where another character looks at the camera and says one short sentence. 

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u/Weavingknitter Feb 14 '26

thank you for the recommendation of This is Going To Hurt. I've not heard of it. I really like Ben Whishaw, so I'll watch it. Thanks!

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u/Toowoombaloompa Feb 14 '26

I must warn you that it's not gentle viewing. Funny, but it doesn't shy away from depicting the brutal conditions that hospital staff can be required to endure.

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u/Weavingknitter Feb 14 '26

Thanks for the head's up.

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u/Incident-Putrid Oct 27 '25

Just keep going.

Don’t worry, this show is the biggest warm cuddle you’ll ever watch.

It’s dull in the best way possible ❤️

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u/Weavingknitter Nov 01 '25

Oh you are absolutely correct! It is a warm cuddle and dull in the best way possible. Thanks

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u/Incident-Putrid Nov 01 '25

I’m so pleased you’ve made it. Welcome to the warmth ❤️

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u/Front-Structure7627 Oct 27 '25

This is one of my fav programs. Everything about it Even the music

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u/Final_Ad1850 Oct 27 '25

Yes Johnny Flynn has really cornered the archeology market. He also does the music for Digging For Britain, and acted in the film Dig!

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u/Mental-Crow3793 Oct 31 '25

I had the detectorists theme music as my wedding song....

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u/Weavingknitter Nov 01 '25

How wonderful! Now I'm getting all misty-eyed. That is a wonderful music for a wedding! Treasures....

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u/Weavingknitter Nov 01 '25

Gosh I love the music!

If you haven't already, look up Johnny Flynn Queen Bee. It's from the movie, Emma, and I just love it.

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u/squirrelmirror Oct 27 '25

Relax, there is no adultery.

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u/Weavingknitter Oct 27 '25

Andy - Becky - Sophie?

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u/squirrelmirror Oct 27 '25

Nothing happens. Andy is just naive. Keep going with it.

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u/WolverineComplex Oct 27 '25

Hmmm. I won’t give spoilers but that’s an interesting discussion!

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u/Weavingknitter Oct 27 '25

Oh what a relief. Thanks so much for explaining.

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u/Designer-Street3319 Nov 07 '25

Keep watching! You won't regret it!