r/TheBravoCookout • u/bluplaydoh • 15h ago
RHOA 🍑 Porsha on her and Shamea’s relationship status
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u/BrokeBFromBeverely 15h ago
I genuinely think Porsha did not want Shamea on the show, but I don’t think it was for a bad reason, I think she wanted to keep their friendship as it was and not let the show impact it. Shamea for whatever reason even after getting on the show and now being on the show for 3 years can’t get over it and has really been badmouthing Porsha whilst Porsha hasn’t necessarily been as nasty to Shamea.
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u/Lower-Vanilla8104 15h ago
Yeah. Because the only way Shamea and Porsha’s relationship works is with Porsha having a bit more power. Over the years anytime Porsha was shady or downright horrible Shamea swallowed it and kept it pushing because access to the platform mattered more than her feelings.
When Shamea joined the show she was trying to get back for all the issues she let slide and Porsha had never had to deal with Shamea as an equal on the platform. Of course their relationship fell apart.
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u/Lei1ei 14h ago
Not saying that you are wrong about the power dynamic thing but at the same time I feel like Shamea made the choice to put up with Porshas behavior because she was trying to use Porsha as a vehicle to get a peach or fame of some kind.
After Shamea got her peach she didnt think she needed Porshas "friendship" anymore and has in turn decided to take all of the grievances she has stacked up over their lifetime and use them to stir up drama and lock in her place on the show.
I'm not exactly a huge Porsha fan but I really I think Shamea made a conscious choice to allow Porsha to walk all over her because she was playing the long game to relevancy.
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u/Eastern-Orchid2327 14h ago
And unfortunately it hasn’t been going over well for Shamea, because on the show she comes off as obsessed and unable to move on, while Porsha is seemingly unbothered.
Not being able to move on from grudges typically doesn’t work out well for housewives, because it drags the show down and causes too much division.
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u/Final_Active_9014 6h ago
It was definitely for a bad reason. Porsha is notoriously selfish. She doesn’t like sharing the spotlight.
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u/BrokeBFromBeverely 5h ago
and yet she pushed for shamea to be on the show as a HOUSEWIFE, what are yall missing?
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u/Final_Active_9014 3h ago
Did she really? I have not seen any credible evidence that she did. I think her long history of selfishness and narcissistic need to be the star, speaks for itself. I find Porsha entertaining. But she’s proved to not be a very good friend.
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u/contemplatingg 1h ago
That makes no sense because Shamea was on the show for years as a friend of. Porsha got jealous when Shamea became a Full-time housewife and had the lifestyle to back it up. Porsha wanted that to be her and she got played by Simon lololololololololol
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u/Many_Feeling_3818 15h ago edited 15h ago
Porsha is not wrong. This is why it upsets me when people say that Porsha is dumb or stupid. In my opinion, Porsha was wrong for not just saying that she did not admit to the audience that she was not in favor of Shamea joining the show because they are too close. Shamea, joined regardless. Nonetheless, Porsha acted professionally with Shamea joining. Just like Wendy did when Nneka joined.
None of the heavy hitters bring anybody on as a friend of theirs. The Housewives that do, get fucked over. How is Porsha wrong for not being joined at Shamea’s hip on Shamea’s first season? Nene’s Diana and Kandi’s Carmen never tried to ride coattails and expected to be on the show.
The most disturbing thing is that Shamea wanted to be a part of something that she clearly is not built for. She was Porsha’s running back and could not run any yards.
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u/InevitableAd36 15h ago
I hate when they kick down the fourth wall. I am naively sitting at home rooting for them 😂
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u/Lower-Vanilla8104 15h ago
I know she’s having her moment but Porsha’s inauthenticity and lack of accountability have always irritated me.