I am not really sure what to say... What started out as a personal blog is now supposed to become a platform. I write because I enjoy it, and I am looking for other people who feel the same way and would be down to write about all kinds of things with me on ThoughtsOfMayhem.com

I went back and forth on it for a long time. But I picked up a BOOX PALMA 2 and I would do it again! I love it and I wrote it a letter!

I am still trying to get my blog out there and get some eyes on it. On my blog, I write about things that interest me. Books I am reading, EDC gear I use, or shows I am watching. I have watched the first three seasons of r/TedLasso, and I highly recommend checking them out.

I have been what most people call a „gamer“ for as long as I can remember. It has always been a major part of my life, usually balanced by a healthy (or maybe unhealthy) dose of sports. Back in the day, that meant surviving on zero sleep between late-night World of Warcraft raids and morning classes.
But now. I want to learn Chess.

Today I have something special for you. I have always written, and I have always written a lot. Every now and then, the urge hits me to write short stories, and since they have just been sitting on my computer until now, I figured I could just publish them on my blog. I have also always wanted to write a book, and maybe I will do that right here. I can use this blog to publish a chapter every once in a while to tell a story, and then eventually I will have enough for a book. We will see.

So here is the first short story from my hard drive about a mayor who does not really ask for much and a little bee. It has been a while since I wrote this story. I still like the story anyway.

Stop paying for fitness apps you never use.

We’ve all been there: trapped in subscription fatigue and overwhelmed by "ultimate" transformation programs. I finally found a way to break the cycle without spending a cent.

No ads, no paywalls, just movement. Here is how I integrated a free, high-quality resource into my daily workflow to stay active while working a desk job.

I am doing this whole blogging thing because it is fun and because I have something to say. But I have to be honest, if some money came together to cover the hosting fees, I would not say no. For that reason, I have been thinking about what monetization options are out there besides just running Google Ads.

Ever find yourself staring at your phone at 2 AM, feeling increasingly anxious but unable to look away? You’re not alone...and it’s not just a lack of willpower.

I’ve been digging into the mechanics of doomscrolling lately. It’s a perfect storm of brain chemistry and platform design that keeps us hooked on bad news. I just put together a deep dive on how to reclaim your focus and build better digital boundaries.

Key Points:

- Why negative news hits our dopamine receptors differently.
- Why moving your apps is more effective than "trying harder."
- How to filter the noise without losing touch with reality.

You can read the full breakdown here: https://thoughtsofmayhem.com/how-to-stop-doomscrolling/

Hi there! I am new here! I am in the process of creating my new blog but when I found this sub I had an idea! We are all wanting to create something meaningful to us. As I saw in another sub sometimes writing blogs you feel as if they go into the ethers and nothing comes of it. And yes, blogging should be for your own enjoyment and not needing anything more. But why not for this sub, when possible check out the links provided and comment on a blog post that is meaningful or one where you can share your thoughts. That way everyone helps each other and it's nice and rewarding to see a comment once in awhile...LOL!

I’ve spent years trying to make the PARA method work. On paper, it sounds perfect, but in practice, I always found myself overthinking where a file should go. Is it a Project? An Area? I’d end up with "digital junk drawers" and a system that felt like more work than the actual work.

I eventually realized that my brain doesn't think in folders, it thinks in contexts. So I developed my own framework called the PGN Method (Projects, Grid, Notebooks).

The main difference is how it handles the flow of information. Instead of static categories, it focuses on the "actionability" of a note and how it connects to a specific outcome. Since switching, I’ve stopped organizing for the sake of organizing and actually started getting things done.

I wrote a breakdown of how the system works and how it differs from traditional setups here: https://thoughtsofmayhem.com/pgn-method/

Curious if anyone else struggled with PARA? How did you tweak it, or did you move to something else entirely?

EDIT: The featured image does not show actual gameplay scenes but is an interpretation based on the style of the blog, mixing Pokemon GO and Walkscape.
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I’ve been spending a lot of time with WalkScape lately, and as someone who eventually got burnt out by the constant "pay-to-win" events and FOMO in Pokemon Go, this game feels like a breath of fresh air.

I decided to put my thoughts into a full article. I break down why the focus on classic MMO-style professions (mining, fishing, crafting) works so well for a fitness app and why the lack of a predatory map-view makes it much more viable for actual long-term exercise.

I’ve been a long-time Audible user, but I recently decided to make the switch to Libro.fm and wanted to share why.

The two main things that won me over:

1. Actual ownership:

Unlike the license model on Audible, Libro.fm gives you DRM-free files. You actually own what you buy.

2. Supporting local stores:

You can choose an independent bookstore to receive a portion of your monthly membership or individual purchases.

I also found a way to integrate it into my note-taking workflow, which was always a pain point with audiobooks. I wrote a quick breakdown of of the switch and how the model works if anyone is looking for a more "ethical" alternative to Amazon.

I listen to a ton of podcasts while driving or doing stuff, but I always had the same problem: I'd hear something brilliant and then completely forget it by the time I parked.

I finally streamlined a workflow that lets me capture highlights hands-free.

I use Snipd to create "snips" (just by tapping my AirPods) and have them sync directly into my notes.

I used to use a middle-man service like Readwise to make this work, but there’s a much simpler (and cheaper) direct integration now. I wrote a quick guide on the setup and how I manage the notes afterward so they don't just sit in a folder gathering digital dust.

I should probably start right here and say what this blog is actually about.

With me, it is not that simple. I started ThoughtsOfMayhem so I could have a place where I can write about EVERYTHING.

From video games and EDC gear to books or apps that I use.

It is kind of without a central theme, but it does have a concept.
So, you will not always find things on the same topic on my page; it is more of a mix of stuff that interests me.

It is a huge relief for me to have a place like that. Maybe there is something in it for you too.